12/22/25

Monday Morning Offering: 12/22

Coffee in the Morning by George Mendoza
 
Good morning, good God!

It’s that time, Lord,
when we give each other gifts
    - on your birthday!

Please forgive us
    for getting that mixed up every year
       - and again this year!

So, there's lots of wrapping going on:
    paper and foil, gift bags and boxes,
    tags and tape, ribbons and bows…

Seems that everyone’s wrapped up in wrapping
so what I offer you this morning, Lord,
    are all the things that wrap me up
       and definitely need unwrapping...

• I get wrapped up, Lord, in little things
while the big things go undone.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and keep me faithful
      to what deserves my first attention...

• I get wrapped up in things that waste my time
and time is one of my most precious possessions.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and make me a better steward
      of my days and nights, my work, my play and my rest…

• I get wrapped up in fantasies and fears
and leave untended the realities I just don't want to face.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and sharpen my vision
      of what’s real and what will help me truly grow…

• I get wrapped up in what I want and hope to get,
and in desire for what I can't or shouldn't have.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and give me a hunger
      for what truly nourishes and satisfies...

• I get wrapped up in having more, in having the most,
in having the biggest, the newest, the best.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and help me give and give away:
      help me simplify and learn to do with less...

• I get wrapped up in anger and hurt
that sap my energy for reaching out.
    Unwrap me, Lord, and free my heart
       to serve and be with others...

• And I often wrap myself up in - my self:
I get all wrapped up in me:
    in my wants and in my worries,
    in my disappointments and self-pity...

Unwrap me, Lord,
and let me see the blessings that are mine:
    your love, your word, your presence,
    your mercy and your strength...

Unwrap me, Lord,
so that others can know, share and enjoy my gifts...

Unwrap me, Lord, when I try to hide
    from you,
    from your love
    and from the love of those around me...

I have Christmas gifts for others, Lord,
    but it’s your birthday that's coming
so I offer you an unwrapped heart,
    laid bare for you to touch and heal
and mend and bless and wrap again
    - but this time in your word and will,
           your gospel and your grace...

Unwrap me, Lord,
    I need your help:
        I can't unwrap myself... 

Amen.



  

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12/21/25

Did you know that the beloved Christmas song "O Holy Night" was onced banned in churches?

It's true: O Holy Night was once banned in churches!  And if you watch this video, you'll find out when and why that happened.

 Actually, I'm using that lead to entice you watch and listen to the work of Ben Maton, a young musician and Youtuber in Salisbury, England. I happened upon Ben's work on YouTube and I'm grateful to have done so.  Ben is both an organist and filmmaker and in his videos he combines these talents brilliantly.

Each video takes the viewer to a church in England where Ben guides you on a tour of the building and its organ - and a particular piece or style of church music.  The visuals, Ben's beautifully delivered commentary - and his music - come together seamlessly, providing a half hour or so of the English countryside, the history of old church buildings and the music that has supported people's worship for centuries.

 Each time I "take a walk" with the Salisbury Organist, I find myself historically enriched, culturally delighted, musically uplifted and  - at peace.  

Perhaps you'll find some of that experience, too. 

  

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An extra prayer for December 21...

A little background...
 
December 21 is the shortest day of the year, the winter solstice.  In the Northern Hemisphere today we will have only about 8 hours and 45 minutes of daylight. Tonight will be the longest of the year and beginning tomorrow, daylight will lengthen at an average of 2 minutes and 7 seconds every day.
 
In the week before Christmas there are special antiphons sung in the church's prayer and the verse for today is O Rising Sun!  On the solstice, the shortest day of the year, we celebrate Christ as "Oriens" which means dawn, sunrise, break of day.  Christ is the light no darkness can extinguish!

Rise like the dawn, Lord!

Let your sun's rays thaw my heart 
    to melt and heal what my grips my soul...
 
O come, O Day-Spring, from on high
    and cheer me with your joyful light...

Disperse the clouds of anxious fear
    that rob me of your peaceful calm...

Draw me from my darkness
   to the light that dawns each morn...

In these dark and wintry days, Lord,
    by my warmth and be my light...

Amen. 
 
Christ, Be Our Light by Bernadette Farrell
 
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NIGHT PRAYER: Sunday 12/21



On Sundays, Night Prayer takes its lead from some element from the day's liturgy. This evening's prayer finds its origin in these verses from today's gospel:
This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.       But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”       All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Emmanuel”(which means “God with us”).       When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife.
Did you know Saint Joseph was a dreamer? Joseph doesn't utter a word in the gospels - we learn about him through his four dreams concerning the birth of Jesus. In the first he learns about the divine nature of Mary’s pregnancy and is told ‘not to be afraid’ but to take her as his wife. In the second, he's warned to leave Bethlehem and flee to Egypt. While in Egypt, he has a third dream revealing that it is now safe for him and his family to return to Israel. In the fourth dream, he's warned again of danger and takes the Holy Family to Galilee instead of back to Judea.   So, tonight we pray in the spirit of this dreamer who loved Jesus with a father's heart...
 
Like Joseph, Lord, we all face times,
    when you allow things to happen
        or allow things to fail to happen,
that critically touch and shape us,
    turning our lives around, often in ways 
            we never dreamed would happen, 
    in ways we hoped would never happen…

And in all of this, Lord, your word to us
    is the angel’s word in Joseph's dream:  
        Be not afraid...    
    because in everything, in all things,
        God is with you...

Was Joseph ready for this, Lord?
Was he any more or any less ready 
    - than we are?

Are we ready to renew our faith, our trust
    in all the ways your presence
        weaves itself into our lives:
    touching and shaping and
        turning our lives around
    in ways we may have never imagined 
        - or wanted.

And most of all, Lord, are we ready
    to trust that you're with us
        in everything
            and in all things...

Tonight, Lord, we remember 
    Joseph's doubts, his anticipation, his confusion, 
        his regrets, his fears,
            his concern for Mary,
        and his wonder and his awe...

We remember him placing himself in your hands,
    putting aside his fears and worries...

We remember Joseph's dreams
    and tonight, each of us prays with him:
I come this night, Lord,
    with a heart sometimes ready, and sometimes not,
        to love you, trust you and follow you...

My problems, worries and burdens
    often loom larger than life
and back me into lonely corners 
    where I wonder where you've brought me,
        where you'll lead me
            - and even if you're still with me...

My heart needs a dream, an angel, a message
    reminding me often, 
Be not afraid...  

All day long and in my sleep,
    remind me, Lord, as you did Joseph,
that with you I can face all things,
    accept all things, do all things,
        and endure all things...

Especially when my life, my heart
    are spun around, turned upside down;
when my sense of direction fails me
    and when I doubt the path I walk...

Remind me then to not to be afraid
    and to trust that with you, Lord, by my side
I can be always and more than ready
    for all that comes my way...

I pray tonight, Lord,
    with a heart sometimes ready and sometimes not,
but ready or not, Lord
    - here I come!    

Ready or not, Lord - here I am -
    and here I stand,
in need of your love 
    and mercy and strength...

Be with me, Lord,
    and be with me, St. Joseph,
        and help me not to be afraid...
Protect us, Lord, while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace... 

Amen.  
 
Joseph, Did You Know by Christian Paul
 
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Joseph, did you know 
that the maid You chose 
already bore a child? 
Joseph, did you know 
that because this child 
by friends, you’d be reviled? 
 
Did you know 
that this boy you’d raise 
would be the sinners' praise? 
This first-born son of Mary 
your sins one day would carry! 
 
Joseph, did you know 
that this boy you’d teach 
to handle wood and hammer
Had himself designed 
all the trees of earth, 
made all things in his manner? 
 
Did you know that 
those serving hands 
would be nailed to a tree? 
The carpenter you’d train 
through death 
would set you free! 
 
He’d set the captives free 
He’d heal the brokenhearted 
He’d teach us how to love 
And heal us by his wounds! 
 
Joseph, did you know 
that this son you’d raise 
would change this world’s story? 
Joseph, did you know 
that this son you’d raise 
will raise you in his glory? 
 
Did you know 
that this carpenter 
would go and build your mansion! 
And one day, very soon, 
he’ll return as 
King of Kings! 

  

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Pause for Prayer: SUNDAY 12/21


      Click on the graphic above to more easily read its text!
 
I've written often, Lord, of the incongruity 
    of our giving each other gifts
when the birth we're celebrating 
    is yours - not ours!
 
But this little tree solves my problem;
    the gifts 'round this tree are twofers
 
Each is a gift for someone else
    but in the giving - a gift for you -
for each is a gift from a loving heart,
    a gift of the peace you were born to bring... 

You were born for mercy, it's who you are,
    and you bid us share your healing grace,
mending fences and making peace:
    no other gifts could please you more...

So, help us, Lord, exchange the gifts
    that mend and heal and reconcile,
the gifts that bring us close to you
    because they join our hearts as one
        because they make us one with you...
 
Amen.


  

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12/20/25

Homily for the Fourth Sunday of Advent: Watch out for the fine print!

 Above you'll find the audio of my homily for the Fourth Sunday of Advent.  Here are the scriptures I preached on - and the text of my homily follows below.

So what do you think you're getting for Christmas this year? Not what you’re getting for others - but on Christmas morning, what do you think you might find under the tree tagged for you?

Or maybe you don't put up a tree anymore. Or maybe you no longer exchange gifts with others. Or perhaps you no longer have others with whom to exchange gifts.

Or maybe the kind of person who tells everybody, "Don't get me anything for Christmas - I have everything I need!”

All of you above notwithstanding: suppose on Christmas morning, you wake up and find this on your kitchen table: 

 You probably can't see it - but there’s a tag here - and it says, "To you from God.”

A Christmas gift to you from God...

You know, at this time of year, I often try to remind folks that it's Jesus' birthday. He should get the presents - not us. But I don't think I'm reversing that caution if I suggest that Jesus just might have a gift for you, and a gift for me, a gift for each of us.

You often hear folks say that the first Christmas gifts were the gold frankincense and myrrh that the Magi gave the child Jesus after following the Christmas star to Bethlehem.

They're wrong.

The first, the original Christmas gift, came from God to us - and the gift was precious indeed. God gave us his only begotten Son. Jesus himself was the first Christmas gift. And Jesus himself was a great and generous giver of gifts.

He gave us the gospel - the good news of his father's love for us.

He gave us a new commandment that we love and care for one another - at least as much as we love and care for ourselves.

He gave us a new teaching on how to live with each other: in our families, in a community, in society, in the whole world - a teaching filled with truth and wisdom and sacrifice.

And in the end, Jesus gave us everything he had out of love for us. He gave his life for us on the cross. And in his suffering, in his dying and his rising, he gave us the gift of hope - hope for eternal life.

And after he rose from the dead, he gave us another gift - the gift of his Spirit - the spirit to live in our hearts and our minds to shape our desires, our affections, our choices.

Jesus is the original gift that keeps on giving.

And that's why I'm so sure that under the tree - or on your kitchen table - or in your heart - Jesus has a gift for each of you and for me, this Christmas.

And his gift to each of us will be the best gift we'll receive because nobody knows better than Jesus exactly what each of us needs for Christmas. 

(Jesus also knows exactly what each of us might want for Christmas - but what we need and what we want are sometimes two different things. And Jesus knows the difference much better than we do.)

- So if what you need this Christmas is a gift of peace and harmony in your family, Jesus has that in stock.

- Do you need a gift of peace of mind? Jesus has that in every possible model and color.

- Do you need the gift of companionship? That gift has already arrived! He's already by your side waiting to keep you company, to talk with you, to comfort and console you.

- Perhaps you need the gift of relief from worry and fear? He's got that in small, medium, large, extra-large, extra-tall, and extra-wide – that’s for me.

- Do you need the gift of forgiveness? Jesus has that in one size fits all - except this time, it really does fit everybody.

 - Do you need the gifts of faith, hope, and love? No other supplier offers these in the exquisite priceless quality that Jesus offers.

And in all of these gifts, there's free delivery. No hidden costs, no taxes, no shipping or handling charges. All of these gifts are insured and guaranteed by the Creator of the world, the Creator of all things visible and invisible.

Sound too good to be true?

Well, there is, right on this box here, on the bottom - a little fine print.

This gift requires some assembly - which means once you receive your gift from Jesus, you have to work with him to put it together in your own life and circumstances.

More fine print. This gift does not come with batteries. Gifts from Jesus require that you supply some personal energy for that gift to function in your life.

Oh, and there’s this: for two or three or more players. Gifts from Jesus are meant to be shared. The invite and require the participation of others in our lives.

Oh, and it also says here, No Returns. You see, Jesus really does know what we need - and he doesn't expect us to exchange what he gives for something we want. (And I'm pretty sure he asks us to trust him on this.)

And finally, this odd note: Gift must be unwrapped before using. It seems like common sense, huh? But you see, Jesus’ gifts won't matter or work or please us - if we don't unwrap them and start to use and share them. Many of us have received gifts, talents, and blessings that have sat unopened for years - under a little Christmas tree in our hearts…

Well, that's the fine print. But in very large, bold print tonight, the prophet Isaiah told us what I just preached: that God has a gift for us for each of us, and that gift is Emmanuel, which means God is with us.

Emmanuel, the promised one, the Messiah, the anointed, the King of Kings, the Prince of peace, the one who will come and make all things well.

In the Gospel, Joseph was about to receive a gift - the gift of Mary's child -who was not his own child. That was the fine print Joseph had to read - on a gift that he didn't quite understand, a gift he wasn't sure he wanted or needed, a gift he was (at least at first) slow to accept.

But a gift which he came to love and adore.

Sometimes you and I have a hard time believing that “God has a gift for me.”

 Finding the gift that God has for me, accepting the gift that God is handing to me; opening, using, and sharing the gift that comes from God's own heart and hands - into my heart and hands. Even tagged with my own name!

If any of us here find it difficult to believe all of this, then let's pray and ask Jesus to help us see that what he gives us may not be the gift we want, but it will always be the gift we need.

Jesus gave us the gift of his life on the Cross: once, for all. But every time we gather at his table, at this altar, he offers us his gift - again. The gift of his life, his healing, his mercy, his presence and his peace.

As he does in every other gift he offers us: in the Eucharist, Jesus gives us himself, with all his love – because he truly is, the Gift, the Giver, who keeps on giving.


  

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Lighting the Fourth Candle on the Wreath


 
At sundown today we begin to celebrate the Fourth Sunday in Advent: a season to prepare our hearts for the celebration of Christmas and for the day when Christ will come again at the end of our lives and in the fullness of time... Last week we prayed for joy, this week we pray for perseverance... If you have an Advent Wreath at home, light all four candles each night this week. If you don't have an Advent Wreath, light any candle you have. And if you have no candle, use the virtual candles above and join us all in prayer... 

In the dark of night, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

In the dead of winter, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

In the heat of the day, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
In confused and troubling times, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When I just don't have a clue, Lord:
    help me persevere...

On the uphill side of life, Lord:   
    help me persevere...

When opinion outweighs truth, Lord:
    help me persevere...

In good times and in bad, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When the odds are all against me, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I feel I've been abandoned, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
When nothing seems to work, Lord:
    help me persevere...
 
When I'm overcome by grief, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When I just don't know the way, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
Until things settle down, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When I cannot find your face, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
When no one understands, Lord:
    help me persevere...
 
In sickness and in health, Lord:
    help me persevere...
 
When all the world seems crazy, Lord:
    help me persevere... 

When I can't find words for prayer, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
When I just can't hear your voice, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When the news gets worse each day, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When my burdens seem too heavy, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I fear that you've forgotten me, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I suffer for your name, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I hunger for your truth, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I thirst for peace and joy, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I don't know where to turn, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I've just run out of hope, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When I'm ready to give up, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

When my faith is wearing thin, Lord:
  
help me persevere...
 
When I'm searching for your wisdom, Lord:
    help me persevere... 

When one more step seems just much, Lord:
   help me persevere...
 
When I've forgotten why I persevere, Lord:
    help me persevere...

When I wish that Christmas was all done, Lord:
  
help me persevere...

On my good days and my bad days, Lord:
     Lord, help me persevere...

Send your Holy Spirit, Lord:
    to strengthen my resolve,
    to give me new, firm purpose, 
    to deepen my fidelity,
    to point me towards the truth,
    to open wide my eyes,
    to shine upon my path, 
    to teach me how to trust,
    to help me hope again
    and to help me persevere, Lord,
    to help me persevere...
 
Protect us, Lord, while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...
 
Amen. 
 
 Jesus My Strength by Paul Turner
 
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