5/10/26

Prayer for Mothers Day


On this second weekend in May we honor our own mothers and Mary, the mother of Jesus and our mother in faith...
 
 Mothers will be celebrated by their families this weekend in special ways. There will be flowers and sweets; phone calls from children who live too far away for a visit; cards and gifts; breakfast in bed or brunch or dinner at a nice restaurant.  Keep a place in your prayer this day for all the mothers who will rejoice with their families this Mothers Day weekend...


Some women will spend this Mothers' Day in anticipation of the birth of a child they're carrying - perhaps their first child - a child whose ultrasound image has already won the hearts of mom and dad. Other expectant mothers are making their way through the long process of adoption - or perhaps the arrival of their adopted love is just around the corner! Still others welcome children into their lives as their stepmother.  Keep a place in your prayer this Mothers' Day for those who are expecting the arrival of a child - and pray that both mother and child will be healthy...


I lost my mother in August of 1991. I love her and miss her but I can't say that Mothers' Day is as difficult day for me as I know it is for many others. Tougher for me than the second Sunday in May are all the times through the year when wonderful things are happening in my life, in my ministry, and I think, "I wish mom could be here for this!" Open a place in your heart to pray for those who miss the wonderful mother God gave them...


Some mothers have and raise children with no spouse to help and support them.  Some mothers have chosen this path but others have not. Let's keep a place in our prayer for those who know the burdens of single-parent mothering and, when able, open ourselves and our homes to offer what company and help we might give...


My heart goes out to women who want very much to be mothers but who, for any number of reasons, are unable to bear a child... I know this day can be difficult for them, even as they celebrate their own mothers with love and devotion. Let's keep a place in our prayer for women who long for a child with all their heart and soul...


I think of mothers around the world who live in abject poverty, who have no food for their children, no clothing, no health care, no decent shelter... I don't pretend to know or understand what must be the depths of their pain as they hold a malnourished child in their arms with no food to keep them from dying... Pray with me for change in our world to ensure that no mother, no child need face such desperation... And pray for those who even now work to bring food, clean water, clothing and shelter to those who have none...



Part of my ministry is to serve the bereaved... Just recently I celebrated the funeral of a wonderful woman, a fine mother, a woman with faith as great as it was simple, as beautiful as it was profound. Her family grieved and prayed for her and I know this Mothers' Day will be especially difficult for them. Let's keep a place in our prayer this weekend for those whose grief over losing their mother is fresh in their minds and hearts...


We live in world where children are born to families able and ready to care for them and we live in a world where millions of children will be hungry this Mother's Day.  We live in a world where some nations limit the number of children a couple may legally have.  And we live in a world where many champion the "right" to end the life of a child already conceived. For the mothers of all these children, and for their children, let us keep a place in our prayer this weekend...


Some children have mothers who failed to care for them. Their sons and daughters understand deeply the lyrics of that old song, "Sometimes I feel like a motherless child." And some mothers will be burdened today with memories of how they missed the signs of harm being done to their own by others.  Let's keep a place of prayer in our hearts for those whose hearts are heavy today...


Some mothers today will be forgotten by their children: no visit, no card, no call, no candy or flowers. Some mothers this day don't know where a son or daughter has gone or what has become of them. A mother's heart aches on this day for the child of her womb who has forgotten her or who has disappeared. Pray with me on this Mother's Day for women who wait for a call that will not come...


Many mothers will remember today a child they've lost to sickness, addiction, an accident, war or other violence, miscarriage or abortion.  A parent's grief for a child can be unfathomable - and a mother's grief is deeper than any. We Christians pray and believe that one day we shall see those who have gone before us and enjoy their love again. Keep a place in your heart for mothers who need the consolation of such faith and pray they'll trust that the Lord will indeed keep his word...

There are many places in the world where mothers are shielding their children from the threat of drone strikes or armed militia in the streets.  There are places where homeless mothers are caring for their children after war has destroyed their homes.  Offer a prayer for peace and an end to the violence that war visits upon poor and innocent families...


Some mothers today will not know or recognize their children when they come to visit. Time has robbed them of their memory of even those they love the most. Keep a place in your prayer today for mothers who may know their children in their heart of hearts but are unable to remember or speak their names. And pray for those sons and daughters who tell their mothers of their love, hoping that a mother's heart will hear what her mind no longer holds...


This Mothers' Day, we turn our hearts to Mary, the Mother of God, the Mother of Jesus and Mother of us all: Christ's sisters and brothers. With a mother's care she raised her Son and lived the joys and the grief that only a mother's heart can know. Whatever our spirits on this Mothers' Day weekend, the Mother of Jesus embraces us all, so let us pray...

Hail Mary: Gentle Woman 
        sung  by the Daughters of Saint Paul 
 
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Hail Mary, full of grace,
The Lord is with you.
Blessed are you among women
And blest is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners now
And at the hour of death.
Amen.

Gentle woman, quiet light,
Morning star, so strong, so bright.
Gentle mother, peaceful dove,
Teach us wisdom, teach us love.

You were chosen by the Father,
You were chosen for the Son,
You were chosen from all women
and for woman, shining one...

Blessed are you among women,
blest in turn all women, too,
blessed they with peaceful spirits
blessed they with gentle hearts...


  

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5/6/26

Pause for Prayer: TUESDAY 5/5


Especially when I'm on retreat, I often pray these words from Edwina Gately - but these are words you and I might pray every day - or even several times a day - whenever we want to spend some time with the Lord - who always wants to spend some time with us...

Be silent...

Be still...

Wait before your God...

Say nothing...

Ask nothing...

Be still...

Let your God look upon you...

That is all...

God knows...

God understands...

God loves you with an enormous love...

God only wants to look upon you with love...

Quiet...

Still... 

Be...

Let your God love you... 


  

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5/4/26

NIGHT PRAYER: Monday 5/4


Tomorrow morning (Tuesday) I'll be leaving for an 8 day silent retreat at Eastern Point in Gloucester.  While I'm away, I won't be posting often - and perhaps not at all, depending on how the Spirit leads me.  Please pray for me - and you can be sure that YOU will be in my prayers!  Although the prayer below comes from the heart of someone leaving for a retreat, I believe that with just a a little adaptation, it's a prayer any of us might offer any day...
 
I'm sometimes asked, Lord,
if I go on retreat with an agenda,
some spiritual plan of action, 
some purpose or goal...

Actually, I try to avoid doing just that.
My only purpose on retreat 
is to spend some quality time with you:
to carve out some time
just for the two of us 
time to renew and refresh our relationship
- or to give it a jump start
    when that's what I need... 

If there's any agenda for this week, Lord,
I want it to be your agenda 
because I'm 100% certain 
that you know better than I
just what I need this week,
just what's missing in my life,
just how you and I can grow closer to each other
in faith, in hope, in love, through prayer...

So, help me put aside all my worries and concerns,
all the problems and troubles 
that might easily distract me
from all you have in store for me this week...
 
Help me slow down, Lord,
    and take a few deep breaths...

Send your Spirit 
to make of my heart a blank page
where you can write your name, Lord,
and tell again the story of your love for me
and what you plan for me, 
ask of me 
and hope for me...

Make of this week 
a time and place of healing quiet
where I can hear you 
in the hush of your silent presence... 

Open me, Lord,
to all you want to say to me this week,
all you have to reveal to me this week,
all you want to share with me this week...

Set the agenda for my retreat, Lord,
and open my mind and heart
to all you want this week will offer me...
 
Be with me, Lord, while I'm awake
and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
and asleep, rest in your peace... 

Amen.
 
I just discovered this song and it's perfect for retreat - or any time you want to steal away for some time in prayer... 
 
Come Away by Morris Chapman
 
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Don't you be in such a hurry 
Cause it only leads to worry 
There's a time to work 
But there's a time to pray 
Try to find a quiet place 
To hear His voice and seek His face 
Can you hear the Spirit calling, 
Come away. 
 
Come away, come away,
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
Let your heart and mind be stilled 
Let your empty cup be filled 
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
 
Are you sinking in your sorrow 
Are you worried about tomorrow 
Are the pressures of this life too hard to bear 
If you cast your cares on Him 
He'll give a perfect peace within 
Can you hear the Spirit calling, 
Come away. 

Come away, come away,
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
Let your heart and mind be stilled 
Let your empty cup be filled 
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
 
Come and spend some time with Me
And my love will set you free 
Come and spend some time with me
Come away. 
 
Come away, come away,
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
Let your heart and mind be stilled 
Let your empty cup be filled 
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
Come and spend some time with Me 
Come away. 
 

  

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Monday Morning Offering: 5/4



Good morning, good God!
 
There are times when I'm driving, Lord,
and after a stretch of miles
I realize I'm not sure
    if I've been watching the road
        with all its twists and turns;
not sure if I've paid attention 
    to other vehicles and highway signs;
not sure if I've been aware 
    of what's around me,
        what's behind and ahead of me...
 
And yet somehow 
(miraculously?) 
I've made my way to where I am 
from somewhere way back there 
and all without landing in a ditch 
- or worse...
 
I've often been listening to music
    or talk radio... 
or sorting through roaming thoughts... 
toying with ideas passing through my mind...
or just quietly moving down the highway
in the silent chapel of my car...
 
Is any part of me watching?
keeping an eye on the traffic?
looking left and right
in my rear view mirror? 
 
How is it that I don't lose my way?
that I get from somewhere way back there,
'til somehow I am here,
in the present,
in the moment,
now
- with you? 
 
It's not me, Lord, it's you,
you're riding shotgun, 
you're my copilot, 
you're at the wheel,
safely steering me
through heavy traffic,
dangerous curves,
and danger I might miss...
 
You alert me to exits
I can or should take
and guide me safely home
and to my journey's end... 
 
As on the highway, Lord, 
    - so in my soul -
you ride along beside me, 
protecting me along the way 
getting me from where I was, 
    - through peril I miss -
to where I'm going,
where I need to be, 
to where you  call and want me to be...

I offer you my thanks, Lord, 
for all you do  
when I'm not looking, 
when I'm nodding off, 
paying scant attention 
- when I should be alert, observant,
    vigilant and wide awake...
 
I offer my thanks for your direction, Lord,
for all the times you've nudged and prodded me,
for when you've grabbed the wheel 
and steered me out of harm's way,
keeping me on the road you've mapped
for this journey of mine through life... 

Amen.


  

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5/3/26

NIGHT PRAYER: Sunday 5/3


On Sundays, Night Prayer takes its lead from some element from the day's liturgy
and today is the fifth Sunday in the Easter season.  In today's Gospel, we find Jesus at his last supper, bidding farewell to his friends and telling them that he is their way, their truth and their life...  Those images are beautifully set to music in John Becker's song, "Lead Me, Lord."  I suggest that tonight we listen first to the song (lushly arranged here by Mark Hayes) and then join together in the prayer... (If a video doesn't appear below, click here!)
 
 
 
Blessed are the poor in spirit, longing for their Lord,
for God's coming kingdom shall be theirs.
Blessed are the sorrowing, for they shall be consoled,
and the meek shall come to rule the world.

Lead me, Lord, lead me, Lord, by the light of truth
to seek and to find the narrow way.
Be my way; be my truth; be my life, my Lord,
and lead me, Lord, today.

Blessed are the merciful, for mercy shall be theirs,
and the pure in heart shall see their God.
Blest are they whose hunger only holiness can fill,
for I say they shall be satisfied.

Blest are they who through their lifetimes sow the seeds of peace;
all will call them children of the Lord.
Blest are you, though persecuted in your holy life
for in heaven, great is your reward.

Let's pray...
 
"By the narrow way..."

That's the way I need to go, Lord,
and I do need you to lead me
    to seek and to find the narrow way...

I'm so easily led down wider paths,
roads with broad, undefined shoulders:
    lots of room for weaving back and forth
    and waffling on decisions, choices
    and changes to be made...

The wider path is looser, less constricting,
leaving me free to follow the latest fad,
    the crowd's lead or whatever whim or fancy
    might currently be mine...

Multiple lanes on the road offer me
    more room than I need,
    more sway than is wise,
    more chances for losing my way...

It's the narrow way, your way, Lord
    that helps me focus on my goals,
    keeps me straight on the way that's mine,
    protects me from making wrong turns
    and leads me, always, closer to you,
    to your word, your grace and your love...

So lead me, Lord, by the light of truth,
lead me to seek and to find the narrow way.
Be my way; be my truth; be my life;
be my Lord - and lead me home...

Protect me, Lord, while I'm awake
and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
and asleep rest in your peace...

Amen. 

  

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Homily: Am I on the right path?

 
Here's my homily for May 3, the Fifth Sunday of the Easter season. (If a video doesn't appear above, click here!)  My reflection is based on today's gospel and the text of my homily follows below. Note: towards the end of my homily I refer to Becket, a young boy who received Communion for the first time this morning.) 
 
So we're at the Last Supper - and Jesus says to his closest friends:
        “I'm leaving you. I'm gonna go away for a while
            - so I can prepare a place for you -
                a place where we can all be together.
        And don't worry, you know how to get there.”

 

Thomas, the doubter, says,

    “Lord, we have no idea where you're going. 

    How could we possibly know how to get there?

 

Jesus says,

“Thomas, I *AM* the way.”

 

And then Thomas says… 

 

Oh, wait! Thomas doesn't say anything!

 

Thomas keeps his mouth shut - possibly because Thomas thinks Jesus hasn't really answered his question. And he's hesitant to push it, to ask again.

 

Thomas was looking for directions, maybe even a map. But Jesus' response seems to beg the question. Maybe it's a riddle.  

                “Show me the way. Oh, I am the way!”

 

Well, the more important question for you and me this morning is this: Do you and I know the way? The way to the place Jesus has prepared for us in his father's house. Can you and I puzzle out the riddle - and how Jesus could be “the way?”

 

I'm not exaggerating here when I tell you that the directions to the place where Jesus has made something ready for us in heaven are the most critically important directions you and I could possibly ever receive, or understand, and follow.

 

The only way we can solve the riddle, the only way we can understand how Jesus IS the way, is to know who Jesus IS. Or better yet, and more simply: To. Know. Jesus.

 

To know Jesus is to find the map that leads to the place waiting for us in the Father's house. And we will know that Jesus is our way IF the road we're on is filled - as was his - with ups and downs, twists and turns, joys and sorrows, potholes and detours.

 

We'll know that Jesus is our way IF the road we're on, like his, is a path with its share of hardship, suffering, and sacrifice.

 

We'll know that we're on the way of Jesus, IF it seems like, if it feels like the way of the Cross. Because that is the way of Jesus.

 

We'll know that Jesus is our way IF, like Jesus, we're not always sure where the road is heading. If, like Jesus, we need to, from time to time, pull over to the side: to rest, to reflect, to pray, to ask for the Father, “Where are you taking me? Where am I going?”

 

We'll know that Jesus is our way IF, like Jesus, we keep meeting

   - poor people who need our help,

   - hungry people, who cry for a place at our table,

   - sick people who need our company and our care,

   - sidelined people who need to be included,

   - difficult people who need our understanding,

   - strangers who need to be welcomed,

   - annoying people who need our patience,

   - persecuted people who need our defense,

   - and hurtful people who need our forgiveness.

 

But - and this is a big but…   

BUT, 

    if the road I'm on works to keep me

      from just those people,

   if the path I'm traveling protects me

      from even meeting such people,

   then there's a good chance

      that I've gone the wrong way,

      that I've taken a shortcut or a wrong turn,

      that I’m traveling in the wrong direction,

      that I’m lost…

A good chance that I'm not heading home

   to the Father's house.

A good chance at Jesus isn't the truth in my life.

A good chance that Jesus isn't my way.

 

That's why it's so important for us

   to gather here every Sunday, 

   to hear the truth of Jesus in the scriptures

      and the directions he offers us

         for keeping on the right path.

 

We gather here to celebrate his life in the Eucharist,

   to be nourished by his life in communion,

      (as Becket will be the first time this morning)

   to be nourished by his life in Communion

      so that we can be strengthened to reach out

            to those people we meet along the way Jesus IS.

 

We gather together to check the compass in our souls,

   to ensure we're walking in the footsteps of Jesus,

following Jesus, who is our way, home to the Father,

   to the place the Lord has readied for us in the kingdom.

 

So, the riddle is solved.

 

We DO know where Jesus was heading when he told his friends at the Last Supper that he was leaving them for a while.

 

We know that he has returned - he rose from the dead - and he wants to take us home with him, to where he is, with his Father.

 

And we know the way that leads there.

 

We know that Jesus, himself,

   Jesus, is the way.

 

  

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