9/25/26

I'll be moving!

I want to let you know that in a few months I’ll be moving.  My 5 years at Good Shepherd Parish in Wayland have been very good and I’m grateful to the people and the two pastors with whom I served there for their warm welcome of me as a senior priest in residence.  I knew when I arrived in Wayland that, God willing, it would not be the last time that I’d unpack and settle into new quarters. Now, after much prayer and reflection, I believe it’s time to make what will likely be my last move -- not to worry! -- I’m in good health and I hope to live in my new digs for many years to come!

 

I’ll be moving just a little bit east - to downtown Boston, to the archdiocesan residence for retired priests.  My new home will be Regina Cleri (Latin for Queen of the Clergy) which is located on Cardinal O’Connell Way, just behind Mass. General Hospital. 

 

 

Regina Cleri is home to more than 60 priests. I know many of them (some better than others) and several of my ordination classmates are already living there.  At my new place I’m choosing a medium size suite which includes a study, bedroom and a full bath.  This is more expensive than a small suite (yes, I will be paying rent) but the medium size is more comfortable and comes with one of the balconies you see in the photo above.  Breakfast, lunch and dinner are served daily in the dining room. (I’ve had lunch and dinner there and the food is excellent!)  Also included are weekly housekeeping and laundry service, as well as phone/WIFI/cable. While my rooms will be furnished, I’m free to bring any of my own furniture with me.  (My recliner will definitely be coming with me!)   

 

My new home will be within a 10-15 minute walk to the Esplanade, Starbucks, Government Center, the State House, Quincy Market, the North End Downtown Crossing, North Station and the various transit lines. And a parking space for my car!

 

While I hope what I've written thus far answers most of the questions you might have, you might still be wondering, “Why?  Why now?”  I’m pleased to respond!

 

I retired from assigned ministry 5 years ago and I’m very grateful to be in good health and living an independent lifestyle. Still, I know the time will come when I’ll need to depend more on others in my daily life – more than rectory living situations can easily accommodate or provide for.  While I still handle stairs quite well (at my own pace and with a bannister!) the days of living on the second floor won’t last forever and yes, Regina Cleri has an elevator! I know, too, that I’ll maintain a much healthier diet when my meals are regularly prepared by folks who will pay more attention to my nutrition than I usually do.  I’m in my 80th year and I’ve known for a long time now that while I like to think of myself as still being young in spirit, the rest of me continues to age and slow down.

 

So I’ll be moving from one independent lifestyle setting to another – with the option of greater care when and as I may need it.  I believe this is a wise move to make – and that now’s the time to make it.

 

Once I’m settled in, I’ll look for a parish where I might help out by presiding and preaching at a Sunday mass.  While I have no particular place in mind, I’ll be looking something not too far from downtown Boston. 

 

And yes, of course, I will continue writing my blog!

 

I hope this gives you a fair picture of what’s ahead for me - and I hope you’ll rejoice with me!  I don’t at all feel that I had to make this decision. As I drove away from Regina Cleri after my interview there, I felt a deep certainty that this is the next right thing to do in my life – and that brings me much peace.

 

When will this happen?  I don’t have a definite date but I hope to have moved in by Thanksgiving.

 

I’m not moving far away – my new home is only a little about 20 miles from where I live now. in. Please pray for me - and join me in thanking God for this great opportunity.

  

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NIGHT PRAYER: Friday 9/26

Sometimes at night, Lord, I look back and wonder: 
    how did I spend my time today 
        - wisely or foolishly?
    did I do enough?  
    did I do too much?
         - just what DID I do?      
    did I do what was mine 
       to do this day?
    and did I do it generously 
      and graciously? 
    did I waste any precious time today? 
    did I lose this day
        because I was stuck in yesterday?
   did I forfeit this day,
        worrying about tomorrow?
   did I spend a part of this day 
        reaching out and caring for others?
   did I spend a part of my day
        in prayer with you?
   did I take the time today to thank you, Lord
        for all the time you spent with me today?

Scripture tells me there's a time for everything, Lord,
   and a time for every purpose under heaven...

If I wasted my day,
   forgive me, Lord;
if I was selfish with my time,
   forgive me, Lord;
if I was foolish with my time,
   forgive me, Lord;
if I gave in to purposes not worth my time today,
   forgive me, Lord;
if I took today's time for granted,
   forgive me, Lord;
and if I failed to praise and thank you 
    for the gift of this day's time,
       forgive me, Lord...

Day is done, it's time to pray
   you'll bless the night ahead
with good rest, deep sleep 
    and the grace of peaceful dreams... 

May the time I spend asleep tonight
   restore, refresh and ready me
for the time I'll have tomorrow 
   to grow in love and serve you
       in loving and serving others...

Protect me, Lord, as I lie awake
   and watch over me when I'm fast asleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
   and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen.

Turn, Turn, Turn by Pete Seeger,
    sung by Judy Collins

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To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven

A time to be born, a time to die
A time to plant, a time to reap
A time to kill, a time to heal
A time to laugh, a time to weep

A time to build up, a time to break down
A time to dance, a time to mourn
A time to cast away stones, 
A time to gather stones together

A time of love, a time of hate
A time of war, a time of peace
A time you may embrace,
A time to refrain from embracing

A time to gain, a time to lose
A time to rend, a time to sew
A time for love, a time for hate
A time for peace, I swear it's not too late

  

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9/24/26

Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 9/25

 
In the morning, Lord,
    I open the curtains and raise the shades
        to let in the light of day...

Remind me then
   to pull back the curtains veiling my heart
      to welcome the light of your presence...

Whether the day be cloudy or clear,
    when I lift what shades and shields my heart,
        your healing light illumines my soul...

So, shine on me, Lord, from dawn to dusk,
    'til I draw the curtains hung by my windows
        and open my heart to moonlit peace...

Amen. 


  

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NIGHT PRAYER: Thursday 9/24

I posted this a few years back but I've recently been with some folks who have shared their tears with me - or who worked hard to keep their tears from flowing...  Tonight's prayer has several parts: 
    (1) I listen to the Lord speak in the scriptures  
    (2) I respond to the word I've heard
    (3) The Lord answers my prayer!
    (4) I speak to the Lord once again..
 
Lord, you keep track of all my sorrows,
   you collect my tears in a jar, 
      you record each one in your book...  
 
If you're collecting all my tears, Lord,
then by now you must have gallon jugs 
filled with the dew of the sadness and joy 
I've wept over all these years...
 
For a long time, it seemed, 
my tears only flowed 
in sadness and in sorrow,
washing my bruised and wounded heart,
a drop at a time or a steady stream...

But the older I get the quicker tears come
at the least little joy:
    some beautiful sight,
    a memory recalled,
    a word I've read,
    a song I've heard
letting stream from within 
the waters that flow 
from my story of who I am...
 
You record my tears in a book, Lord?
I imagine, then, sacral, lachrymal pages,
tear-stained, watermarked, carefully kept
by you who number
my days, my sorrows, my joys...

And the Lord responds...

I know your joys and your sorrows:
    both your tears of laughter 
    and your tears of grief...
 
And because they're all so precious to me
I store all your tears in a jar:
    droplets of grace, salty memories 
    of every time you turned to me, 
    leaned on me and cried to me
        in sorrow and in joy... 

And I pray...

In good times and bad you're with me, Lord,
as you tenderly, gently, dry the tears
that moisten my face and roll down my cheeks
in streams of love from the springs of my heart...

Receive my tears as prayers, O Lord:
    some, a cry from my broken heart;
    some, a plea for your healing touch;
    and others, a psalm of grateful praise
        for your comfort, peace and compassion...

Protect me, Lord, while I'm awake
    and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen.
 
You Have Collected All My Tears 
   by Dan opdeVeigh

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You catch and collect every drop on my cheek
You know all my sorrow, you feel all my grief
You stand with me through the fire and fear
You redeem every tear
You redeem every tear

You clean every stain, you forgive all my sins
You raise me to life now my heart beats again
My hope will rise as your glory appears
You redeem every tear
You redeem every tear

So all things shall be well
All things shall be well
Take heart, child of God,
All things shall be well

You count every hair and you number my days
You search me, you know me, you call me by name
You weep with me as you always draw near
You redeem every tear
You redeem every tear

You promise to stay ever close by my side
And work for my good through the pain of the night
Heaven will come to the earth you hold dear
All your beauty made clear
When you wipe away all my tears

 

  

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• ANNIHILATE • A Catholic critique of POTUS' speech at the UN

Once again, Arthur Holquin offers an accessible and telling Catholic theological critique of a current event: Trump's speech at the UN General Assembly.

 

  

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9/23/26

Pause for Prayer: THURSDAY 9/24

 
Thanks, Lord, for your patience with me,
even when I'm impatient with you:
    when I want (and demand!)
        that you do what I want, 
    that you follow my plan
    that you work on my schedule
    - instead of yours...
 
Thanks, Lord, for your attentiveness to my prayer,
especially when, for long periods of time,
    I pay you little attention
    - except when I want to ask you for a favor... 
 
Thanks, Lord,
for giving me so many second chances
    after I've blown so many before
    and don't really deserve yet another opportunity
    and the grace of a new beginning...

Thanks, Lord,
for loving me, especially when I fail to love 
    my neighbor,
    my colleagues at work
    and even members of my own family;
thanks for loving me, Lord,
    when I fail to love myself
    and, most of all,
    when I fail to love and trust in you...

And thanks, Lord,
for bearing with me on that one thing
that bothers me so much:
    - be patient with me as I try to let go;
    - hear and answer my prayer in my struggle;
    - be faithful in helping me work through this;
    - and give me, again and again,
         the grace to be free of that one thing
        that troubles me so much...

And thanks, Lord, for loving me:
with the love that's yours alone to give:
    the love from which I came to be,
    the love that keeps me going, day to day,
    the love for which I am most truly grateful...

Love me, Lord,      
    with love enough to spare,
    with love enough to share 
    with everyone 
    I know and meet today...

Amen.

  

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NIGHT PRAYER: Wednesday 9/23


In  a world where so many have so little - or nothing -
I have much more than I need, Lord,
and still, so often, I want for more...
 
The things I have and the things I want
distract me from wanting, desiring, pursuing
the only possessions I truly need:
    your mercy, 
    your pardon, 
    your grace, 
    your love...

Help me take an honest inventory, Lord,
    of everything I have - and everything I want...
 
May I keep whatever I truly need,
    share with others what I have in abundance
and discard whatever keeps me from you
    and your mercy, 
    your pardon, 
    your grace, 
    and your love... 
 
Free me from my desire 
    to have and have more,
    to buy and buy more, 
    to own and own more,
    to collect and store up 
        more than I need or ever can use...

Free me from my dependence on my possessions
    and their rule over my choices and decisions...

Give me a generous heart, Lord,
    to reach out to those in need...

Draw me away from all of my stuff, Lord,
    to a simple, peaceful, quiet place
and there in the stillness, help me, I pray,
    to begin to let go of things I cling to
and as I let go, to be generous 
    to those who are truly in need...

In the quiet, Lord,
    help me love the stillness
in which I have only and all that I need:
    your mercy, 
    your pardon, 
    your grace, 
    and your love...
 
Protect me, Lord, while I'm awake
    and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
    and asleep rest in your peace...

Amen. 
 
These Alone Are Enough by Dan Schutte 
 
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9/22/26

Pause for Prayer: WEDNESDAY 9/23


 

 

 

  

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NIGHT PRAYER: Tuesday 9/22


I received an email today that included two words that spoke volumes of grace...  
 
Some days, Lord, 
just a few words 
are more than enough 
to give me pause, 
settle my soul, 
lift my spirits
and bring me peace...
 
It's not every day 
I hear or read 
such golden words
- but I did today:
    I read them with my eyes
    and heard them in my heart:
    "spiritual balm..." 
 
What these two words meant to me
and the home they found,
deep in my soul,
that's all well known to you, O Lord:
    you inspired and delivered them
    without their sender's knowing
    what grace and gift
    two simple words can be...
 
Open my ears and my heart, O Lord,
to the many simple blessings
that simple words can bring;
    help me see and hear them
    when they come addressed to me...
 
Inspire me, Lord, to say and write 
simple, healing, soothing words
for you to hand deliver
to other waiting, open hearts:
    balm for a wounded spirit,
    a blessing for the soul...

Protect me, Lord, while I'm awake
    and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
    and asleep rest in your peace...

Amen. 
 
Speak To Me, Lord by Quincy Jones

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9/21/26

Pause for Prayer: TUESDAY 9/22

 

FROM THE ARCHIVES!  11 years ago I was driving from Honolulu to Kailua when I stopped at this overlook in the mountain pass.  The wind was alive on the pali (the cliffs) and felt refreshing on a warm, humid day... (If a video doesn't appear below, click here!)


 
Great Spirit of God,
moving on the pali's grasses and branches:
    move in me with all your power,
    your strength, your breath of life...

Bend me to your will:
    to what you'd have me do,
    what you'd have me say,
    and where you'd have me go...

As you enliven nature's greenery,
exhilarate my mind and soul:
    bend me, move me, sway me, 
    pulse in me
        with life I don't yet know is mine,
    with breath to keep me going,
    with trust that comes in gusts
    to fill my heart with newfound hope...

Great Spirit of God,
moving on the pali's lush green heights:
    move within my heart and soul
    and breathe in me 
    the life that's only yours to give...

Amen.

  

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