12/14/25

I'd like to share some memories with you...

I thoroughly enjoy retirement and I'm grateful for the ministerial opportunities that are still mine - especially preaching on Sundays and writing my blog.  Still... there are  things I miss about being a pastor - and the Advent season never fails to stir some warm memories of times past...
 
I miss having a church to "dress" for the Advent season...  I miss the company of the women and men who worked so hard to make our worship space a sanctuary for Advent prayer and reflection...  I miss putting together the Advent wreath and inviting people at each weekend mass to come forward and light the candles...  I miss singing Advent Evening Prayer in a candle lit church on Sunday nights... I miss going to the local florist to buy some roses and baby's breath to add to the wreath on the Third Sunday of Advent - and inviting folks at Evening Prayer that night to take home a rose with them.   I miss the wreaths on the church doors and around the sanctuary and the garlands accenting the choir loft and ambo - all studded with purple bows...
 
Yes, I miss  so many things but I'm grateful, oh, so grateful, for memories like the ones above, the photo of the Advent wreath and the recording like the one below: all souvenirs of grace -filled years spent in Concord with God's people in prayer, waiting and preparing to celebrate the birth of Christ...

Praise God from whom all Advent blessings flow!
 
An Advent Blessingcomposed by Jan Michael Joncas and Alan Hommerding; sung by Concord Pastor and the people of Holy Family Parish, Concord 
 
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12/13/25

Pause for Prayer: SUNDAY 12/14

On the third Sunday of Advent the church rejoices that we're half way down the path to our celebration of Christmas.  Sometimes, however, our personal emotions are hard put to match the season alive around us.  When it's not easy to find joy, when it's difficult to rejoice, we might pray this way...

 
I rejoice, Lord,
in every joy I've ever known
and those I’ve now forgotten –
help me cherish them 
and savor every one...
 
I rejoice in all my simple joys:
summer days and winter snows,
and many others 
lost as memory fades...
 
I rejoice in those 
who've loved me well,
my family, friends and anyone
who gently crossed my path... 
 
I rejoice in your desire, Lord, 
to bless my heart with joy
and fill me with serenity 
and peace…

I rejoice in your forgiving me
each time I turn and ask you
for your mercy 
and your pardon…
 
I rejoice in deeply trusting, Lord, 
that even when I'm sad
joy is waiting 
to surprise me… 

In all things I find joy, Lord,
and praise your holy name:
today's a day that you have made
and in it I rejoice...
 
Amen.  

 

  

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Homily for December 14: My annual "What I Want For Christmas Letter"

I'm away in Colorado through New Year's and without the services of my dedicated videographer - but an audio of my homily can be found above and the text for the same, below. If a widget doesn't appear above, click on the link here.

Do you watch the news? And if you do - do you need a little Christmas? And if you need a little Christmas, do you find it hard to wait for Christmas?

Waiting for Christmas isn't easy. It certainly isn't easy for children. It's not even easy for adults - even if you're only waiting for Christmas to be over!

 

Well, I do watch the news - and I definitely need a little Christmas.

 

And while I'm waiting, I wrote my annual What I Want for Christmas Letter. But I don't write to Santa Claus. I go right to the top - to God. So while you're waiting, I'd like to share that letter with you. (At this point I unrolled my Letter to God!)

 


Dear God,

 

I don't mean to sound impatient Lord, but just like the song says, "I need a little Christmas - right this very minute….”

 

And here's what I want for Christmas…

 

• I want peace, Lord, and lots of it. • I want peace in every land and place where daily life is threatened by war, violence and terrorism. • I want peace for the innocent and the poor who are so often war’s first victims. • I want peace for our troops who stand in harm's way, willing to lay down their lives for others. • I want peace in my own nation: an end to the hostility that divides us - and the return of civil discourse that leads to unity. • And I want peace for my family, my neighbors, for my friends, and peace for me, Lord. • And I want the kind of peace that really lasts, the kind of peace that only you can give…

 

And that's why I need a little Christmas, Lord, because it's your birthday, and you are the Prince of Peace.

 

And a homecoming Lord - a homecoming is on my wish list. • I want a homecoming this Christmas for the church, for this parish. • And I want a real homecoming, not just on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, but a homecoming that lasts Sunday after Sunday into the new year, bringing home those who've been away from church, who've been wounded by the church, those who no longer trust the church.

 

And yes, Lord, there's more.

For people in troubled marriages and broken families - and for parents everywhere who worry about their children - I want those gifts that all of us need: patience, understanding, compassion, healing, and forgiveness, reconciliation. Give us the love and humility we need to be kind to one another - even to be kind to those who aren't kind to us.

 

And at the risk of being greedy, Lord, there are still more gifts I hope to find under the tree or stuffed in my stocking.

 

Gifts like:  • Truth to help us all make good decisions and wise choices. • Jobs for the unemployed. • Health care and healing for the sick. • Housing for the homeless for anyone seeking shelter. • Food for the hungry. • Gentle care for the elderly. • Respect and reverence for all living beings. • Justice for your oppressed. • And freedom for those held captive.

 

I know I'm asking for a lot, Lord. I want so much. We need so much. But please don't think me selfish. • Bloodshed stains so much of the earth. • Two thirds of the world's people are underfed or starving. • And so many lack even the humble shelter of your stable.

 

We need a little Christmas to remind us that it's your birthday, Lord, and that you and the poor wait for us: we who have already so much - who have more than we need. You wait for us to figure out and change whatever it is that keeps the poor, poor while the rich grow richer.

 

And believe it or not, Lord, there's still one more thing on my list. • I want a Christmas star in the sky again. • A star guiding all of us home to you. • A star shining on the path that leads to peace. • A star pointing us towards the truth of your word. • A star illuminating our minds with wisdom and common sense. • A star enlightening our thinking, our thoughts and decisions and choices.

 

We need a little Christmas, Lord, to remind us that it's not all about the toys and the new clothes and electronics we might want or might hope to get.

 

It's about how much we already have - and need to share. What we need to give, give away generously - give to those whose needs are so much greater than our own.

 

Writing this letter reminds me, Lord, that many of the gifts I'm asking for are already mine to give, to share with those around me: in my family, among my friends at school, and at work, in my community and wherever in the world people are in need.

 

Some of the best gifts, some of the most important gifts don't really cost a lot of money - but to give them means I'll have to spend myself, Lord, spend myself for others. As you, Lord, spent yourself for me.

 

Well, that's my Christmas letter. My wish list to I’m sending to God.

 

There's no Christmas tree here tonight, no “stockings hung by the chimney with care.”  

But there's a table in our midst where even tonight we'll find here the very same gift we received on the first Christmas over 2,000 years ago.

 

Here in the Eucharist, at this table, we'll find, we’ll be given, we'll receive - the Son of God.

 

Jesus, born in a stable in Bethlehem, who came to us in the flesh, comes again tonight in his Body and Blood, in Communion.

 

Pray with me that this gift will open our hearts to the Christmas gifts we really need - and more importantly, to the gifts we need to give others.

 

So we don't have to wait until December 25th for the Lord to come. He's already here… with us… tonight… right this very minute… in our prayer… in our hearts… in his Word… at his Table… in our waiting…

 

Yes, we need a little Christmas now...

 

  

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Bishop dispenses from Sunday Mass obligation...

 
An important message from Archbishop Aymond to his people...
 
My  obligatory disclaimer: I don't advocate for open borders or the toleration of criminal activity. 
 
Archbishop Aymond of New Orleans has dispensed from the Sunday obligation those afraid to go out for fear of being arrested, sent to detention centers or deported. 
The archbishop is dispensing folks who are afraid to leave their homes, not because of a criminal past, but because either their place of employment, their looks or their accent - and the abandonment of Constitutionally guaranteed due process - render them vulnerable to inhumane, uncivil treatment.

 

  

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Lighting the Third Candle on the Advent Wreath


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


At sundown today we begin to celebrate the ThirdSunday in Advent: a season to prepare our hearts for the celebration of Christmas and for the day when Christ will come again at the end of our lives and in the fullness of time...
 
Last week we prayed for faith, this week we pray for joy...
 
If you have an Advent Wreath at home, light the third (rose), second and first candles each night this week.  If you don't have an Advent Wreath, light any candle you have. And if you have no candle, use the virtual candle above and join us all in prayer...

Let us pray for the joy the birth of Jesus brought us...

Let us pray for the joy Jesus offers us every day...

Let us pray for the joy Jesus promises, 
    now and at the end of time...

Let us pray for joy that outlives tragedy...

Let us pray for joy undimmed by disappointment...

Let us pray for joy that heals the wounded soul... 
 
Let us pray for joy that gives us strength...

Let us pray for joy that brings us hope...

Let us pray for the joy the lonely long for...

Let us pray for the joy the grieving hope for...

Let us pray for joy to mend a broken heart... 

Let us pray for the joy that fidelity yields...
 
Let us pray for the joy only peace can bring...

Let us pray for the peace that comes with joy... 

Let us pray for joy that lifts the heart... 

Let us pray for the joy God's mercy brings... 

Let us pray for the joy good memories bring... 

Let us pray for joy that laughs in sorrow...

Let us pray for the joy that dances in mourning...
 
Let us pray for the joy found only in faith...

Let us pray for the joy that friendship brings...

Let us pray for the joy that smiles through tears... 

Let us pray for joy we can can share with others...

Let us pray for the joy for which we hunger
    when it seems all joy is gone... 
 
Let us pray for the joy each of us needs 
    this Advent, this day, this evening...

Let us pray for joy that has no end...

Let us pray for the joy of Jesus' birth... 

Let us pray for joy this Christmas, 
    the joy that only Jesus brings...

Protect us, Lord, while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep joyful watch
    and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen. 
 
Tonight's song is a beautiful, simple mantra, inviting us to bring our sadness to the Lord - who alone can bring us joy...

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In the Lord Is My Joy by Margaret Rizza

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In the Lord is my joy and salvation,
    he gives light to all his creation.
In the Lord is my joy and salvation,
    he gives peace and true consolation
 

    

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A different kind of Christmas song...



This seasonal song by Dan Mangan poignantly captures the mood many experience at this time of the year. This piece isn't religious and I doubt it will cure any heartache - but it just might give some healthy expression to some feelings many of us know in December...
 
(You might want to pair this post with yesterday's (Night Prayer)
 
Christmas Song by Dan Mangan
 
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Pause for Prayer: SATURDAY 12/13

Advent: a season intended to prepare the Lord's way into our hearts and minds, into our lives. While we're spend billions of dollars at this time of year, the heart of Christmas is calling us to the simplicity and poverty of gospel life: to simplify our lives and to identify with and serve those who have so much less than we do.  Saint Oscar Romero wrote about this:

No one can celebrate a genuine Christmas
without being truly poor...

The self-sufficient, the proud,
those who, because they have everything,
look down on others,
those who have no need even of God
—for them there will be no Christmas...

Only the poor, the hungry,
those who need someone
to come on their behalf:
only they will have that someone...


That someone is God.
Emmanuel.
God-with-us.

Without poverty of spirit
there can be no abundance of God....


- Saint Oscar Romero

Romero speaks a hard word here, difficult for us to hear and understand in our first world comfort. But his words are true to the season's spirit. Christmas is for those "who need someone to come on their behalf."  If we think we need no one or if we don't believe the "someone" we need most is, indeed, God - then we will have no idea of what Christmas is all about...  Advent is a time for waiting: waiting for the One who comes on our behalf...

Lord,
    help me know how much I need you...

And if I think I don't need you, 
    that for days, months, even years at a time
    I can get by on my own, without you,
then help me see my folly
    and lead me home to you...

I need you to be there for me, Lord,
I need you to come on my behalf,
    to be my strength, my guide, my advocate,
    my help, my healing, my hope,
    my Savior...

Teach me to hunger
    for time with you in prayer...
 
Teach me to thirst 
    for your truth, your wisdom and your counsel...

Teach me to long
    for the peace that only you can give, 
    the peace I so much want and need...

Teach me to be poor: 
    to know your love's the greatest treasure 
    I might ever find and have...

You hear the cry of the poor, Lord:
    hear the cry of my poor heart
    and help me hear the cry of those in need...

Protect me, Lord, while I'm awake
    and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...
 
Amen.
 
Here' a song whose lyrics may be as difficult to hear as Romero's words - but that's because the composer also understands what the Lord means when he says,
    "Blessed are the poor in spirit for the kingdom of heaven is theirs..." 
 
Poor In Spirit by Nikki Mathis

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12/12/25

NIGHT PRAYER: Friday 12/12

Every year at this time I look for ways to reach out to those who need this season's comfort and joy but who find the holidays to be a difficult time... Perhaps you're one of those folks or perhaps you know some others who are...  Let's  pray together...

    

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

    Lord,
    the jolly jingles are all around -
    but not in every heart...

    Red and green are everywhere -
    but some folks
    just feel blue...

    The rushing 'round
    to buy and wrap
    disheartens lonely souls...
 
    Plans for Christmas eve
    forget
    the ones who'll be alone...

    This merry month can be,
    for some,
    the saddest time of year...            
 
    So, help me, Lord,
    to share, not miss,
    what comfort comes my way...
 
    Help me see
    when clouds of blue
    engulf my neighbor's heart...
 
    Help me hear and tend
    whose tears may fall
    when bells chime out... 
 
    Help me wrap 
    my love to share,
    with those who'll be alone...

    You came, O Lord,
    as one like us,
    to mend our broken hearts...

    You know our loss,
    you share our pain,
    you feel our empty ache...

    Then drop a blessing
    from your hand
    on brokenhearted souls:
      your gentle touch  
      as soft as snow,
      your peace on Christmas day...
 
Protect us, Lord, while we're awake,
    watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we keep the watch with you
    and sleep, rest in your peace...
 
Amen.

Your Hands by JJ Heller

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I have unanswered prayersI have trouble I wish wasn't thereAnd I have asked a thousand waysThat you would take my pain awayYou would take my pain away
You would take my pain away 
 
I am trying to understandHow to walk this weary landMake straight the paths that crooked lieOh Lord, before these feet of mineOh Lord, before these feet of mine
 
When my world is shaking    Heaven standsWhen my heart is breaking    I never leave your hands
 
When you walked upon the earthYou healed the broken, lost, and hurtI know you hate to see me cryOne day you will set all things rightYeah, one day you will set all things right
 
When my world is shaking    Heaven standsWhen my heart is breaking    I never leave your hands
 
Your hands, your hands that shape the worldAre holding me, they hold me stillYour hands that shape the worldAre holding me, they hold me still
 
When my world is shaking    Heaven standsWhen my heart is breaking    I never leave you -
When my world is shaking    Heaven standsWhen my heart is breaking    I never leave your hands 

Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 12/12

Today, December 12, is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patron Saint of the Americas.  

Take a few moments to consider how often Canada, the United States, Mexico, Argentina, Venezuela, Honduras, Haiti and the Caribbean Sea are in the news these days.  And consider the poverty and political unrest that pervades so much of this half of the world...  There are so many people and so many reasons for us to call on Our Lady of Guadalupe who watches over the Americas through the eyes and heart and the mercy and grace of her son, Jesus...

In 1531 Our Lady of Guadalupe appeared in Mexico to Cuauhtlatohuac, baptized Juan Diego, a peasant, on whose cloak there appeared an image on the Blessed Virgin as he had seen her in the vision.  

Here's a beautiful prayer for today's feast, written by Danilo Mendoza Rugama, SJ at The Jesuit Post.
 
*Mi Morenita…
you who took our flesh 
   by appearing as a Native of the Americas,
you who heed our cry 
   during our darkest of moments,
you who appeared 
  accompanied with the signs of flowers 
   and the singing of birds, 
      announcing yourself as the mother of the Great Truth,
you who praise God through your dance,
you who brought not only a message, 
   but The Message was in your womb,
 
My Merciful Mother… 
thank you for being light in our darkest moments 
   and embracing us with your mantle of tenderness;
thank you for wanting to carry us in your heart, 
   where we can also hear and be close 
      to the heart of your Son;
thank you for accompanying us 
   as we labor in God’s vineyard 
when you tell us 
   as you told Juan Diego Cuauhtlatoatzin: 
      "Am I not here, who am your Mother?
      Are you not under my shadow and protection?
      Am I not the source of your joy?
      Are you not in the hollow of my mandle,
          in the crossing of my arms?
      Do you need something more?"
             (Nican Mopohua, 119)

**Mi Madrecita Querida… 
help us obtain from your Son, 
   the grace to always direct our gaze 
where the dignity of our brothers and sisters
    is being violated;
help us obtain from your Son, 
   the grace to become messengers of The Truth 
      when so many lies try to blind us to suffering;
help our lives become a dance 
   that praises, reverences and serves God 
      with our whole beings. 

Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us!

*Morenita is a term of endearment for a dark skinned woman 
** Madrecita Querida means "My dearest Mother"
 
And a song!
This lullaby (as beautiful as it is simple!) is sung in Juan Diego's native Nahuatl language.
Xicochi Conetzintle by Gaspar Fernandes (1566–1629)

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Nahuatl language
Xicochi, xicochi,
Xicochi, xicochi
Xicochi conetzintle
Xicochi conetzintle
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
In angelosme in angelosme
Alleluya alleluya

English translation 
Sleep, sleep
Sleep, sleep
Sleep, precious baby
Sleep, precious baby
Indeed, the angels have come here 
   to rock you to sleep
Indeed, the angels have come here 
   to rock you to sleep
Indeed, the angels have come here 
   to rock you to sleep
Alleluia, alleluia
 

  

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