8/15/26

Does it matter whom you believe in? what you believe in? how you name God?

Above you'll find the audio for my homily this Sunday, based on these scriptures. (If the widget doesn't appear, click here!) And here's the text of my homily:

How often have you heard someone say,

“Well, it doesn't really matter what God you believe in… or how you name God… It doesn't really matter what you believe in - as long as you believe in something. See, I'm really spiritual, not religious.”

Ever heard people talk like that?

 

Well, all three scriptures today do highlight the universality of God. And of God's love and grace. 

 

• Isaiah reminded us that the Lord's house will be a house of prayer for all peoples. 

 

• St. Paul is clear that although his own people, the Jews have yet to accept the gospel - God's covenant with them, his chosen, is irrevocable. 

 

• And in the gospel, we find Jesus reaching beyond his own mission, his mission to the house of Israel, reaching out to a pagan woman whose plea is inspired, perhaps not so much by faith, as by personal desperation.

 

As ancient as these scriptures may be, they still speak to us today. In our own times, the universality of God's love and grace is accepted by many religions, faiths and denominations. In fact (and in addition) it's under the umbrella of the universality of God's love for us that many people gather - as they reject organized religion and its structures, its practices, its faith, beliefs, and demands.

 

How about us, about Catholics?

 

Some Catholics may be surprised to learn that while our Church claims to be the one true Church, we also firmly believe - and the catechism of the Catholic Church teaches this: 

 

• that God creates every person out of pure goodness, and he reaches out in all times and all places to those he loves.

 

• And that the human heart naturally desires God, because every human being is created by God and for God. 

 

• And that Christ’s sacrifice on the cross was offered for the entirety of the human race. 

 

• And that since Christ died for all (and since all are, in fact, called to one and the same destiny, which is divine) we Catholics believe that the Holy Spirit offers to all the possibility of becoming partakers - in a way known to God -partakers in the mystery of Jesus.

 

I didn't make up any of that! It's all from the Catechism of the Catholic Church. It's official teaching!

 

So, does it not matter, does it make no difference who or what we believe in - as long as we believe in someone or something - is that so?

 

Well, to answer that question, we need to approach it from two vantage points. First (and this isn't always easy either) we need to try to see things from God's point of view. How does God see things?

 

• God is the creator of every human being and knows every human person, every human soul, intimately - even those who don't know or acknowledge God. 

 

• God has known every human being since before all time, and God has loved every human being ever born, or to be born, regardless of what they believe or don't believe - God loves them. 

 

• And God's love for each of us and for every one of us is eternally greater than whatever we believe - or don't believe.

 

• God is love.

 

And God's love for each of us is pure gift. A gift given out of God's desire to engage us, to engage you and me, to engage each one of us in a relationship of love. God wants to be, for each of us: our BFF.

 

It's precisely this movement of love on God's part - at God's initiation at God's invitation - it's this movement that even those who don't believe in God - they sense and intuit, because, as the Catechism says, the human heart naturally desires God's love because the human heart was created, made, by God, and for God.

 

It's God's love inviting each of us that draws us either: to believe in God -or- to gather under that umbrella with those who name themselves “spiritual but not religious.”

 

And it's that same gift of God's love - showered on and sensed and intuited by all - that moves us all, prompts us all, nudges us all, impels us all - to love one another. To be kind, caring, just, honest, forgiving, and generous to our neighbor. That comes naturally to us - because we were made by and for God. It's the universal gift of God's love that draws and leads humankind (and again, even naturally so) to build and structure a society founded on the expectations, the responsibilities, and the demands that rise from love of neighbor.

 

In fact, we Christians, we Catholics, say that such love is the law by which we are called to live. And with that statement, I've crossed over to the other vantage point from which we need to try to understand the universality of God's love and grace: he vantage point of the believer's perspective.

 

There are thousands of religions, spiritualities, faiths, and beliefs in the world. But I'm a Christian, and I'm speaking to other Christians.

 

So what do I believe?

 

• I believe in one God, the creator of all things and all people - all things visible and invisible, seen and unseen. 

 

• I believe that God created me, that God created you, that God created us out of love and for love. 

 

• That God made us to know, to share, to experience, and to find joy in his love for us. And to share that love with one another, as generously and as selflessly, as all that is divine has shared itself with all that is human

 

• And I believe that to pierce through and to heal all the ways our hearts are deaf, blind, and insensitive to God's love, God spoke a word, of love - his word of love - and he spoke it so powerfully that it became flesh, took our flesh and blood - in Jesus - precisely so that all might see and hear and touch that love that is seeking us always - the love of God. 

 

• So I believe, we believe, in Jesus, God's word of love made flesh… Jesus who preached the gospel of his father's merciful love… Jesus who suffered and died for us - on account of our failure to love each other… Jesus who rose from the dead so that we might have life, and love, and have it to the full, and have it forever.

 

The life of Jesus - the life message, suffering, death, and resurrection of Jesus - the life of Jesus is God's gift to the world. It's the gift of his love. And in that gift, and with that gift, come revelations, invitations, and expectations.

• Revelations of who God is, and of God's love for us.

• Invitations to share in that love, to bathe in the mercy God's love offers us.

• And expectations of how we, God's chosen and beloved, are to love God - by loving one another and the world in which we live.

 

In just a few moments, you'll be joining me in professing all this - these very same beliefs - when we pray, the Nicene Creed. And in the Creed, we're going to say, We believe in one holy Catholic and apostolic Church. That's the Church born of the love, the gospel, the sacrifice, the heart, the desire, of Jesus.

 

While we believe that God's love is universal, that no human being lives outside or beyond God's loving and universal embrace - we also believe that in a unique, historical, physical, personal, and unrepeatable way, God revealed himself to the world in the mystery of Jesus - who calls us to live in a community of faith… in a communion of grace… in the people of the Church… loving each other as generously and selflessly as he loved us on the Cross.

 

We Catholic Christians believe all of this is God's gift to us in Jesus who lives even now among us in the presence and the power of his Spirit. And that gift, the gift of knowing, sharing in, experiencing, finding joy, and naming God's love in Jesus, is a gift beyond compare, an unparalleled gift from God, who desires to reveal himself to us, who desires to be one with us in love.

 

It's in the light of what we've been given, what we've heard, and what we've received - that we who follow Jesus in the community of the Church can never say, can never say: It doesn't matter who you believe in. It doesn't matter what you believe in. It doesn't matter how you name your god.

 

It does matter if you're religious as well as spiritual.

 

We who know Jesus cannot say that -  so much more than that is our belief. 

 

• I'm talking about the belief that you turn to for help when you're in trouble. In grief. You're suffering loss and despair.

 

• The belief in which you find mercy, forgiveness, joy, and peace. 

 

• The belief that moves your hearts on Christmas Eve and Good Friday, and Easter Sunday, and even on some occasional Saturday afternoons. 

 

• The belief that gathered us here together today.

 

• The belief for which many of our brothers and sisters, to this day, are being persecuted and even martyred around the world. 

 

• The belief that leads us to hunger for, and to find at this table, the bread and cup of the last supper - the presence of Jesus among us in the Eucharist.

 

This is the mystery of faith. This is the mystery of our faith. And so for us, it does truly matter who we believe in, what we believe in - and how we name our God who loves us and who calls and invites us - and the whole of humanity - to partake in the love of Jesus: the word of God, spoken in love, made flesh - in whom we are saved and redeemed.

  

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NIGHT PRAYER: Saturday 8/15


We live in a harsh world, Lord, 
    a rough and tumble, coarse
    and often unforgiving place 
where humankind and nature, too, 
    make dangerous 
    the streets we walk,  
    the cities where we live
and our global village 
    where we've yet to find the way 
    to live in peace,
    united as one family,
    reconciled,
    healed
    and faithful to your word... 
 
Power-hungry greed and lust 
lay waste the land 
and claim the lives of many:
    especially the innocent, 
    the young, the frail, 
    the refugee, the immigrant, 
    the poor...
 
For our pleasure, for a dollar, 
for convenience, for a vote 
we betray the human dignity 
    bestowed on every soul
    by you, O Lord, our Maker,
    our loving, gracious God... 
 
We long for, plead and pray for 
that balance, that sweet justice, 
meant to keep us all alive:
    flourishing and growing,
    beautiful and fruitful 
    in your  garden,
    ever green... 
 
And so it is we turn tonight,
we turn our hearts to Mary:
    gentle woman, quiet light,
    morning star, so strong and bright 
    gentle mother, peaceful dove,
    seat of wisdom, 
    heart of love... 

O Mary, mother, sister,
give us just the grace we need:
    to become God's faithful children,
    making peace with one another, 
    kind and gentle with our neighbors,
    with the world we call our home... 
 
Gentle Mother, peaceful dove,
    teach us wisdom,teach us love... 
 
Protect us, Lord while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen.  
 
Hail Mary: Gentle Woman
    by Carey Landry
performed by the Daughters of Saint Paul 
 
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Hail Mary, full of grace,
The Lord is with you.
Blessed are you among women
And blest is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners now
And at the hour of death.
Amen.

Gentle woman, quiet light,
Morning star, so strong, so bright.
Gentle mother, peaceful dove,
Teach us wisdom, teach us love.

You were chosen by the Father,
You were chosen for the Son,
You were chosen from all women
and for woman, shining one...

Blessed are you among women,
blest in turn all women, too,
blessed they with peaceful spirits
blessed they with gentle hearts...

  


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Pause for Prayer: Saturday, August 15

     The Assumption of Bertha Huber by Marcia Sandmeyer Wilson
 
Reminder: Today is the Feast of the Assumption but because it falls on a Saturday, the obligation to attend Mass today is lifted. More info here.) 
 
This morning's post doesn't include a prayer text but does offer four stories: Bertha's Story, The Assumption Story, Margaret's Story and Our Story...  Let these stories be "prayer starters" for your day...
 
Bertha's Story
This is the 19th year I've posted this delightful painting on the Feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin. I offer this not out of any irreverence or even playfulness but rather to help us understand what happened in Mary's life and how this relates to ours. About this piece, the artists, Marcia Sandmeyer Wilson writes:
"This 16x20 oil painting is called The Assumption of Bertha Huber. It is the third version I have done of this theme. Miss Huber was godmother to my three children. She died at age 87 in August, 1975 and I told the children I would paint what it 'really' looked like.
"Miss Huber was from Munich so I know she was expecting nice blond angels waiting for her in heaven...
"At the bottom of the painting is supposed to be me and the three children weeping for her at the nursing home where she had expired just moments before our arrival. It was a very good nursing home, by the way, named Calvary, in the Bronx."
Painting in the folk art style, Wilson has given us a folk art appreciation of the Assumption. The word comes from the Latin assumere which means to take to one's self
 
The Assumption Story 
The feast of the Assumption celebrates the Lord's taking to himself his beloved Mother, the Mother of us all, who, the Church has taught from early times, was assumed into heaven body and soul lest her body, which bore the Christ into the world, should undergo any corruption.

We pray that one day the Lord will take us to himself at the time of our passing from this life to life forever with God: one day the hands reaching down in Wilson's painting will reach out for you and me. No, we will not be assumed body and soul: this mortal coil of ours will undergo the inevitable corruption of nature. Yet one day, we pray and hope, the Lord will waken each of us to glory and our souls will be reunited with our bodies in a glorified state, the beauty of which we cannot yet imagine. 

Margaret's Story
I remember being called, some years ago, to visit and pray with a woman who was dying. Margaret was only a few weeks shy of her 103rd birthday! I saw her only hours before her death and yet she was as sharp as a tack, greeting me by name, thanking me for coming to see her, and joining wholeheartedly in the prayers I offered with her and for her.

But there were moments during my visit when Margaret seemed distracted from our conversation, straining to see something above her that I couldn't see. And several times she turned her head, as if to listen more closely to a voice I could not hear...   I don't know, but I would not be surprised if this beautiful woman was attending to the faces of all the saints, all of her loved ones in heaven, of Mary, and of the Lord himself as he prepared to take her to himself...
 
Our Story 

There’s a prayer that comes at the end of a Catholic funeral mass and it gives beautiful expression to this faith and hope of ours. I'll use Margaret as the name for the deceased here...

 

Trusting in God,

we have prayed together for Margaret

and now we come to the last farewell.

 

There is sadness in parting,

but we take comfort in the hope

that one day we shall see Margaret again

and enjoy her friendship.

 

Although we may leave here in sorrow,

the mercy of God

will gather us together again

in the joy of his kingdom.

 

Therefore let us console one another

in our faith in Christ Jesus.

 

That's good news!  We shall indeed see and know and love one another in heaven!  The mercy of God will gather us together again with those who have gone before us!

 

But we don’t even have to wait until heaven to have communion with those who have gone before us: with Mary, the mother of Jesus and of us all; and with our loved ones whom the Lord has taken to himself.

 

Each time we approach the altar, we have a taste and a sip of that eternal banquet which awaits us in the Lord’s kingdom and which, we hope and pray, those who have gone before us are already enjoying.

  

  

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8/14/26

Is today a holy day of obligation?

 
In addition to every Sunday, the dioceses of the United States observe 6 holy days of obligation every year.  If January 1, August 15 or November 1 fall on a Saturday or Monday, the day's feast is celebrated but the obligation to attend Mass that day is lifted.  This weekend, the feast of the Assumption (August 15) falls on a Saturday so it will not be a day of obligation.
 
January 1:  
    Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God
 
40 days after Easter 
   or the Seventh Sunday of Easter 
(as determined by the local ecclesiastical province
   - follow the link for an interesting view of things!) 
    Solemnity of he Ascension of the Lord 

August 15:  
    Solemnity of the Assumption of Blessed Virgin Mary
 
November 1:  
    Solemnity of All Saints
 
December 8: 
    Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception
 
December 25: 
    The Nativity of the Lord 

  

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Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 8/14

For some this post will seem to come too early but students go back to school at various times and I don't want to miss any of them!

Below you'll find three prayers I wrote for those who are returning to the classroom: one for students, one for parents, one for teachers and one for empty nesters.

Following my prayers, you'll find another prayer for empty nesters from Diana Macalintal's fine book, The Work of Your Hands: Prayers for Ordinary and Extraordinary Moments of Grace.

Share these prayers! In addition to you and your immediate family, are there others in your extended family, among your neighbors and friends or in your parish who might benefit from these prayers?  Please pass them on! 
 
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A Student's Prayer
You might pray this at home with your children, on the first day of school.  Or you could slip a copy into backpacks and lunch kits - or post it on the family bulletin board or the refrigerator door!
 
Dear God,
Help me remember that you’re always by my side,
    at school and all day long.
Help me be the best student I can be,
    using all the gifts and talents you’ve given me.
Help me study well and often
    – especially when I don’t feel like studying at all!
Help me finish all my homework – on time.
Help me listen to my teachers and coaches.
Help me play fair and play safely.
Help me be honest when I’m tempted to cheat.
Help me always tell the truth.
Help me be kind to everyone at school
    and to treat others as I’d want them to treat me.
Help me make good friends
    and help me be a good friend to others.
Help me see how I can help others
    and to ask for help when I need it myself.
Help me love and respect, trust and appreciate my parents
- and be honest with them.
Help me remember that you’re with me always, Lord,
    and that you’ll never leave my side.
Amen.
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A Parent's Prayer for Students 
Here's a prayer for those who stay at home or take off for work as the kids leave for school... 
 
Dear Lord,
As my children leave for school,
I pray you keep them in your care.
Send your Spirit to open their minds
    to all that's true and beautiful and good.
Help them see the gifts and talents
    you have given them 
        and teach them to use them well.
Help them to grow in knowledge and wisdom.
Help them to be kind to others
    and lead others to be kind to them.
Give their teachers patience and understanding
    and help them teach what's just and true.
Send your angels to guide and guard my children
    and to keep them from all harm.
Open their young hearts to your presence
    and enfold them in your peace and protection.
Hold them in the palm of your hand, Lord,
    and at day's end, bring them safely home.
Amen.
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A Teacher's Prayer
And let's not forget teachers and school staff and administrators! 
 
Dear God,
A new school year is about to begin
    and my classroom door will soon open
        to the students you've assigned to my care...
Open my mind and heart to each of them
    and especially to the ones
        who will challenge me the most...
Help me challenge my students, all of them,
    to study, to learn, to grow in knowledge
        and even a little wisdom...
Help me remember, Lord,
    how young my students are:
        give me patience to help them grow up
            and insight to know the help they need...
Help me understand that sometimes
    my students may not understand me:
        help me be clear in all I say and do...
My students don't know the burdens and worries
    my heart brings to the classroom, Lord,
so help me remember how anxious and how heavy 
    my students' hearts may be...
Keep me from favoring any particular students, Lord,
    except for those who need my help the most...
Let my choices and decisions in the classroom
    be fair and just, honest and true...
Send your Spirit to fill me with gifts
    of knowledge and understanding, counsel and wisdom…
Lord, open my mind and heart to my students' parents,
    especially those who'll challenge me the most...
Help me challenge parents to challenge their children
    to study, to learn and to grow...
Teach me to teach as you would, Lord:
    with understanding when I need to be firm,
    with gentleness in all things 
    and with patience ‘til the last bell rings…  
Amen.
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Reflections for Empty Nesters

For parents sending their high school graduates off to college, the military or the work force (in two versions: for a daughter, for a son).

When a son is leaving home: 
Yes, it's hard...
but it was, in large measure, just for this
    that you brought him into the world:

        for him to grow and mature,
    to begin to be on his own,
        loving you not any less at all
    and perhaps even loving you more     
        for all you've given him up 'til now
    and how you'll love him yet
        as he becomes more and more his own man,
            this child you love so much...
 
Through your tears ask God to help you now
    to find the joy that’s rightly yours
in the life of the fine young man you've raised:
    your child, your son, born of you,
        of your love, your heart and your soul.
Amen.

 
When a daughter is leaving home: 
Yes, it's hard...
but it was, in large measure, just for this
 
    that you brought her into the world:
        for her to grow and mature,
    to begin to be on her own,
 
        loving you not any less at all
    and perhaps even loving you more
        for all you've given her up 'til now
    and how you'll lover her yet
    as she becomes more and more her own woman,
        this child you love so much...
 
Through your tears ask God to help you now
    to find the joy that’s rightly yours
in the life of the fine young woman you've raised:
    your child, your daughter, born of you,
        of your love, your heart and your soul.
Amen.
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And here's Diana Macalintal's  Parent’s Prayer When Children are Leaving Home, in two versions: for a daughter, for a son.
 
A Parent’s Prayer When A Daughter Leaves Home 

Gracious God, you blessed me with the gift of my child
    and entrusted me with her care.
Surround her with good people and watch over her each day.
And let her know that I will always be near
    whenever she may need me.
Heal any hurts we may harbor with each other
    and forgive our failings
        as we learn to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.
And when the sight of her empty room
    pierces my heart with sadness,
may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,
    filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.
Amen.

Copyright 2014 by Order of Saint Benedict.   
Published by Liturgical Press, Collegeville, Minnesota.  
Used with permission.  
 
A Parent’s Prayer When A Son Leaves Home 
Gracious God, you blessed me with the gift of my child
    and entrusted me with his care.
Now he leaves this home and begins a new life apart from me.
Surround him with good people and watch over him each day.
And let him know that I will always be near
    whenever he may need me.
Heal any hurts we may harbor with each other
    and forgive our failings
        as we learn to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.
And when the sight of his empty room
    pierces my heart with sadness,
may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,
    filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.
Amen.

Copyright 2014 by Order of Saint Benedict.   
Published by Liturgical Press, Collegeville, Minnesota.  
Used with permission. 

  

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