8/14/26

Is tomorrow a holy day of obligation?

 
In addition to every Sunday, the dioceses of the United States observe 6 holy days of obligation every year.  If January 1, August 15 or November 1 fall on a Saturday or Monday, the day's feast is celebrated but the obligation to attend Mass that day is lifted.  This weekend, the feast of the Assumption (August 15) falls on a Saturday so it will not be a day of obligation.
 
January 1:  
    Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God
 
40 days after Easter 
   or the Seventh Sunday of Easter 
(as determined by the local ecclesiastical province
   - follow the link for an interesting view of things!) 
    Solemnity of he Ascension of the Lord 

August 15:  
    Solemnity of the Assumption of Blessed Virgin Mary
 
November 1:  
    Solemnity of All Saints
 
December 8: 
    Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception
 
December 25: 
    The Nativity of the Lord 

  

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Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 8/14

For some this post will seem to come too early but students go back to school at various times and I don't want to miss any of them!

Below you'll find three prayers I wrote for those who are returning to the classroom: one for students, one for parents, one for teachers and one for empty nesters.

Following my prayers, you'll find another prayer for empty nesters from Diana Macalintal's fine book, The Work of Your Hands: Prayers for Ordinary and Extraordinary Moments of Grace.

Share these prayers! In addition to you and your immediate family, are there others in your extended family, among your neighbors and friends or in your parish who might benefit from these prayers?  Please pass them on! 
 
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A Student's Prayer
You might pray this at home with your children, on the first day of school.  Or you could slip a copy into backpacks and lunch kits - or post it on the family bulletin board or the refrigerator door!
 
Dear God,
Help me remember that you’re always by my side,
    at school and all day long.
Help me be the best student I can be,
    using all the gifts and talents you’ve given me.
Help me study well and often
    – especially when I don’t feel like studying at all!
Help me finish all my homework – on time.
Help me listen to my teachers and coaches.
Help me play fair and play safely.
Help me be honest when I’m tempted to cheat.
Help me always tell the truth.
Help me be kind to everyone at school
    and to treat others as I’d want them to treat me.
Help me make good friends
    and help me be a good friend to others.
Help me see how I can help others
    and to ask for help when I need it myself.
Help me love and respect, trust and appreciate my parents
- and be honest with them.
Help me remember that you’re with me always, Lord,
    and that you’ll never leave my side.
Amen.
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A Parent's Prayer for Students 
Here's a prayer for those who stay at home or take off for work as the kids leave for school... 
 
Dear Lord,
As my children leave for school,
I pray you keep them in your care.
Send your Spirit to open their minds
    to all that's true and beautiful and good.
Help them see the gifts and talents
    you have given them 
        and teach them to use them well.
Help them to grow in knowledge and wisdom.
Help them to be kind to others
    and lead others to be kind to them.
Give their teachers patience and understanding
    and help them teach what's just and true.
Send your angels to guide and guard my children
    and to keep them from all harm.
Open their young hearts to your presence
    and enfold them in your peace and protection.
Hold them in the palm of your hand, Lord,
    and at day's end, bring them safely home.
Amen.
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A Teacher's Prayer
And let's not forget teachers and school staff and administrators! 
 
Dear God,
A new school year is about to begin
    and my classroom door will soon open
        to the students you've assigned to my care...
Open my mind and heart to each of them
    and especially to the ones
        who will challenge me the most...
Help me challenge my students, all of them,
    to study, to learn, to grow in knowledge
        and even a little wisdom...
Help me remember, Lord,
    how young my students are:
        give me patience to help them grow up
            and insight to know the help they need...
Help me understand that sometimes
    my students may not understand me:
        help me be clear in all I say and do...
My students don't know the burdens and worries
    my heart brings to the classroom, Lord,
so help me remember how anxious and how heavy 
    my students' hearts may be...
Keep me from favoring any particular students, Lord,
    except for those who need my help the most...
Let my choices and decisions in the classroom
    be fair and just, honest and true...
Send your Spirit to fill me with gifts
    of knowledge and understanding, counsel and wisdom…
Lord, open my mind and heart to my students' parents,
    especially those who'll challenge me the most...
Help me challenge parents to challenge their children
    to study, to learn and to grow...
Teach me to teach as you would, Lord:
    with understanding when I need to be firm,
    with gentleness in all things 
    and with patience ‘til the last bell rings…  
Amen.
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Reflections for Empty Nesters

For parents sending their high school graduates off to college, the military or the work force (in two versions: for a daughter, for a son).

When a son is leaving home: 
Yes, it's hard...
but it was, in large measure, just for this
    that you brought him into the world:

        for him to grow and mature,
    to begin to be on his own,
        loving you not any less at all
    and perhaps even loving you more     
        for all you've given him up 'til now
    and how you'll love him yet
        as he becomes more and more his own man,
            this child you love so much...
 
Through your tears ask God to help you now
    to find the joy that’s rightly yours
in the life of the fine young man you've raised:
    your child, your son, born of you,
        of your love, your heart and your soul.
Amen.

 
When a daughter is leaving home: 
Yes, it's hard...
but it was, in large measure, just for this
 
    that you brought her into the world:
        for her to grow and mature,
    to begin to be on her own,
 
        loving you not any less at all
    and perhaps even loving you more
        for all you've given her up 'til now
    and how you'll lover her yet
    as she becomes more and more her own woman,
        this child you love so much...
 
Through your tears ask God to help you now
    to find the joy that’s rightly yours
in the life of the fine young woman you've raised:
    your child, your daughter, born of you,
        of your love, your heart and your soul.
Amen.
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And here's Diana Macalintal's  Parent’s Prayer When Children are Leaving Home, in two versions: for a daughter, for a son.
 
A Parent’s Prayer When A Daughter Leaves Home 

Gracious God, you blessed me with the gift of my child
    and entrusted me with her care.
Surround her with good people and watch over her each day.
And let her know that I will always be near
    whenever she may need me.
Heal any hurts we may harbor with each other
    and forgive our failings
        as we learn to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.
And when the sight of her empty room
    pierces my heart with sadness,
may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,
    filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.
Amen.

Copyright 2014 by Order of Saint Benedict.   
Published by Liturgical Press, Collegeville, Minnesota.  
Used with permission.  
 
A Parent’s Prayer When A Son Leaves Home 
Gracious God, you blessed me with the gift of my child
    and entrusted me with his care.
Now he leaves this home and begins a new life apart from me.
Surround him with good people and watch over him each day.
And let him know that I will always be near
    whenever he may need me.
Heal any hurts we may harbor with each other
    and forgive our failings
        as we learn to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.
And when the sight of his empty room
    pierces my heart with sadness,
may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,
    filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.
Amen.

Copyright 2014 by Order of Saint Benedict.   
Published by Liturgical Press, Collegeville, Minnesota.  
Used with permission. 

  

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8/13/26

NIGHT PRAYER: Thursday 8/13

I've reworked a prayer I posted some time back and added a new song - a great one... 
 
When the news boggles the mind, Lord,
    when it strains credulity, 
    troubles the heart,
    and sickens the soul
then
    sharpen our convictions,
    deepen our compassion,    
    and quicken our resolve
to plan, scheme and work 
    for justice;
to pray, plead and beg
    for mercy;
to endorse, lobby and promote 
    the cause 
of those denied 
    their human rights, 
    their fair, just share,
    their day in court
and the dignity that's theirs
    as your own, Lord, your beloved...
   
Anoint us with your wisdom, Lord:
    make us as cunning as serpents
        and innocent as doves...
 
Send your Spirit to guide us, Lord,
    with gifts of kindness and patience,
        charity, faith and counsel,  
     and the joy comes that from doing your will...

And let nothing, Lord:
    no ideology, theory or philosophy,
    no bias, intolerance or prejudice,
    no strategy, policy or system, 
    no authority, administration or allegiance -
let nothing, Lord, stand in the way
    of our loving and serving you
    in the lives and through the needs
    of all our brothers and sisters...

Protect us, Lord while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen.
 
Wise As A Serpent by Mike Reese
 
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Some people tell me they just don’t know
they don’t know what’s wrong or right 
don’t know which way to go 
they’re too busy living life to get involved today 
Jesus said turn the other the cheek 
he didn’t say look the other way

 

No, ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

you gotta fight for what is right

ya gotta do it in God’s love

ya gotta be wise as a serpent

meek as a lamb

well, it’s ok to be slow to speak

- don’t have your head down in the sand

 

Confronting hatred, intimidation

disguised as the wise protecting the rights

of a free and sovereign nation

they’ll tolerate you, oh, you may progress

as long as the song you sing has the proper ring

and you always tell them yes

 

Oh, ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

you gotta fight for what is right

ya gotta do it in God’s love

ya gotta be wise as a serpent

meek as a lamb

well, I may be slow to speak

- when my head is in the sand

 

Ain’t always easy stand by and see

the lies people buy when they close their eyes

to the truth they don’t wanna believe

some will not listen, their own way

they way they choose is the way to loose

and they won’t know until it’s too late

 

Oh, ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

oh, ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

oh, ya gotta be wise, harmless,

ya gotta be wise, harmless

 

There’s lots of evil we can fight

there’s lots of truth that we can cut loose

lots of darkness needs our light

I guarantee you - you will be misunderstood

ah but what the heck can you expect

from them that call evil good

 

Ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

 

Bad information can mess up your direction

half-truths and lies can slip on by

without some diligent detection

lambs are innocent, serpents are wise

well don’t be a lamb that’s ignorant

and get the wool pulled over your eyes

 

Ya gotta be wise as a serpent

harmless as a dove

you gotta fight for what is right

ya gotta do it in God’s love

ya gotta be wise as a serpent

meek as a lamb

well, it’s ok to be slow to speak

- don’t have your head down in the sand

 

Ya gotta be wise, harmless,

ya gott be wise harmless…

 

  

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8/12/26

Pause for Prayer: WEDNESDAY 8/12


 
What problem am I bringing to God today?

Am I so anxious about tomorrow or next week
that I miss the help the Lord offers me today?  

Am I having a hard time "keeping it in today?"

The Lord's with me right now, 
    in this very moment, while I'm on line...

The Lord's not waiting for tomorrow  
    or next week or next month,
he's waiting right now  
    to give me just the help I need 
    to make it through today,
    one day at a time...

Help me just today, Lord:
that's what I really need.... 

  

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8/11/26

8/10/26

Pause for Prayer: TUESDAY 8/11

Lead me along this day's path, Lord:
    help me leave the past behind
    and open my heart to the future...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord,
    though I can't know, though I may fear
    what's down the road for me...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord,
    keep me from dragging my butt
    and dawdling, stalling, delaying...
  
Lead me along this day's path, Lord,
    and keep me in the moment:
    don't let me turn back...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord:
    point me in the right direction
    and let let nothing change my course...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord:
    help me trust the road you map for me
    though I don't know where it ends...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord:
    show me the way and stay by my side
    with every step I take...
 
Lead me along this day's path, Lord, 
    as I know you always do
and give me the grace to follow 
    where your love and wisdom lead...
 
Amen. 
 
This is probably NOT the "Lead Me, Lord" you know!
 
Lead Me, Lord by Gary Valenciano 
 
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NIGHT PRAYER: Monday 8/10


I'm thinking, Lord, of all the ways my life is 
touched, bruised, blessed, shaped and changed
    by family and by friends,
    by strangers passing by,
    by grudges and resentments,
    by a word of consolation, 
        affirmation and support,   
    by a gentle or a harsh remark, 
    by an open, outstretched hand,  
    by a not so subtle snub,  
    by another's smile or tears,  
    by a rumored piece of gossip
        or a teasing provocation, 
    by attention and neglect, 
    by an understanding glance,
    by the smallest deed of kindness
        done in secret and with love...

All of which causes me to wonder, 
how does my life, Lord,
touch, bruise, bless, shape and change the lives
    of my family and my friends,
    of strangers passing by,
    of those I live and work with,
        those entrusted to my care, 
    of those who serve my many needs,
    of those I disagree with, 
    of those who have forgotten me,
    of those who most annoy me,
    of those who lift me up,
    of those who need my help,
    of those whom I've offended
    and of anyone who's most in need
        of what is mine to share... 
 
We touch, bruise, bless, shape
    and change each other's lives, Lord,
and often without knowing,
    without seeing or perceiving
how much and in how many ways
    we touch, bruise, bless, shape 
        and change the precious lives 
    of family and of friends,
        of acquaintances and neighbors,
            and of strangers passing by,
    all brothers, sisters 'round the world,
        all one in you, our God...
 
Protect us, Lord while we're awake
    and watch over us while we sleep
that awake, we might keep watch with you
    and asleep, rest in your peace...

Amen. 
 
One of the joys of writing these Night Prayer posts is searching for music and finding pieces I've never heard before.  That's the case tonight: Pastor Nancy Rabbe has set Shirley Erena Murray's poem to music and the result is, as the title indicates, gentle and light... 
 
Go Gently, Go Lightly by by Nancy Rabbe
 
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Go gently, go lightly,
go safe in the Spirit,
live simply, don’t carry
much more than you need:
go trusting God’s goodness,
go spreading God’s kindness,
stay centered on Jesus
and where he will lead.

Go singing, go bringing
the gifts of the Spirit,
go hopefully searching
for things that are true:
in living, in loving,
whatever befalls you,
God keep you, God bless you
in all that you do.

  

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