12/14/25
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12/13/25
Pause for Prayer: SUNDAY 12/14
On the third Sunday of Advent the church rejoices that we're half way down the path to our celebration of Christmas. Sometimes, however, our personal emotions are hard put to match the season alive around us. When it's not easy to find joy, when it's difficult to rejoice, we might pray this way...
in every joy I've ever known
summer days and winter snows,
and many others
and praise your holy name:
today's a day that you have made
and in it I rejoice...
Homily for December 14: My annual "What I Want For Christmas Letter"
I'm away in Colorado through New Year's and without the services of my dedicated videographer - but an audio of my homily can be found above and the text for the same, below. If a widget doesn't appear above, click on the link here.
Do you watch the news? And if you do - do you need a little Christmas? And if you need a little Christmas, do you find it hard to wait for Christmas?
Waiting for Christmas isn't easy. It certainly isn't easy for children. It's not even easy for adults - even if you're only waiting for Christmas to be over!
Well, I do watch the news - and I definitely need a little Christmas.
And while I'm waiting, I wrote my annual What I Want for Christmas Letter. But I don't write to Santa Claus. I go right to the top - to God. So while you're waiting, I'd like to share that letter with you. (At this point I unrolled my Letter to God!)
Dear God,
I don't mean to sound impatient Lord, but just like the song says, "I need a little Christmas - right this very minute….”
And here's what I want for Christmas…
• I want peace, Lord, and lots of it. • I want peace in every land and place where daily life is threatened by war, violence and terrorism. • I want peace for the innocent and the poor who are so often war’s first victims. • I want peace for our troops who stand in harm's way, willing to lay down their lives for others. • I want peace in my own nation: an end to the hostility that divides us - and the return of civil discourse that leads to unity. • And I want peace for my family, my neighbors, for my friends, and peace for me, Lord. • And I want the kind of peace that really lasts, the kind of peace that only you can give…
And that's why I need a little Christmas, Lord, because it's your birthday, and you are the Prince of Peace.
And a homecoming Lord - a homecoming is on my wish list. • I want a homecoming this Christmas for the church, for this parish. • And I want a real homecoming, not just on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, but a homecoming that lasts Sunday after Sunday into the new year, bringing home those who've been away from church, who've been wounded by the church, those who no longer trust the church.
And yes, Lord, there's more.
For people in troubled marriages and broken families - and for parents everywhere who worry about their children - I want those gifts that all of us need: patience, understanding, compassion, healing, and forgiveness, reconciliation. Give us the love and humility we need to be kind to one another - even to be kind to those who aren't kind to us.
And at the risk of being greedy, Lord, there are still more gifts I hope to find under the tree or stuffed in my stocking.
Gifts like: • Truth to help us all make good decisions and wise choices. • Jobs for the unemployed. • Health care and healing for the sick. • Housing for the homeless for anyone seeking shelter. • Food for the hungry. • Gentle care for the elderly. • Respect and reverence for all living beings. • Justice for your oppressed. • And freedom for those held captive.
I know I'm asking for a lot, Lord. I want so much. We need so much. But please don't think me selfish. • Bloodshed stains so much of the earth. • Two thirds of the world's people are underfed or starving. • And so many lack even the humble shelter of your stable.
We need a little Christmas to remind us that it's your birthday, Lord, and that you and the poor wait for us: we who have already so much - who have more than we need. You wait for us to figure out and change whatever it is that keeps the poor, poor while the rich grow richer.
And believe it or not, Lord, there's still one more thing on my list. • I want a Christmas star in the sky again. • A star guiding all of us home to you. • A star shining on the path that leads to peace. • A star pointing us towards the truth of your word. • A star illuminating our minds with wisdom and common sense. • A star enlightening our thinking, our thoughts and decisions and choices.
We need a little Christmas, Lord, to remind us that it's not all about the toys and the new clothes and electronics we might want or might hope to get.
It's about how much we already have - and need to share. What we need to give, give away generously - give to those whose needs are so much greater than our own.
Writing this letter reminds me, Lord, that many of the gifts I'm asking for are already mine to give, to share with those around me: in my family, among my friends at school, and at work, in my community and wherever in the world people are in need.
Some of the best gifts, some of the most important gifts don't really cost a lot of money - but to give them means I'll have to spend myself, Lord, spend myself for others. As you, Lord, spent yourself for me.
Well, that's my Christmas letter. My wish list to I’m sending to God.
There's no Christmas tree here tonight, no “stockings hung by the chimney with care.”
But there's a table in our midst where even tonight we'll find here the very same gift we received on the first Christmas over 2,000 years ago.
Here in the Eucharist, at this table, we'll find, we’ll be given, we'll receive - the Son of God.
Jesus, born in a stable in Bethlehem, who came to us in the flesh, comes again tonight in his Body and Blood, in Communion.
Pray with me that this gift will open our hearts to the Christmas gifts we really need - and more importantly, to the gifts we need to give others.
So we don't have to wait until December 25th for the Lord to come. He's already here… with us… tonight… right this very minute… in our prayer… in our hearts… in his Word… at his Table… in our waiting…
Yes, we need a little Christmas now...
Bishop dispenses from Sunday Mass obligation...
Lighting the Third Candle on the Advent Wreath

Let us pray for the joy the birth of Jesus brought us...
Let us pray for the joy Jesus offers us every day...
Let us pray for joy that outlives tragedy...
Let us pray for joy undimmed by disappointment...
Let us pray for joy that heals the wounded soul...
Let us pray for joy that gives us strength...
Let us pray for joy that brings us hope...
Let us pray for the joy the lonely long for...
Let us pray for the joy the grieving hope for...
Let us pray for joy to mend a broken heart...
Let us pray for the joy that fidelity yields...
Let us pray for the joy only peace can bring...
Let us pray for the peace that comes with joy...
Let us pray for joy that lifts the heart...
Let us pray for the joy God's mercy brings...
Let us pray for the joy good memories bring...
Let us pray for joy that laughs in sorrow...
Let us pray for the joy that dances in mourning...
Let us pray for the joy found only in faith...
Let us pray for the joy that friendship brings...
Let us pray for the joy that smiles through tears...
Let us pray for joy we can can share with others...
Let us pray for joy that has no end...
Let us pray for the joy of Jesus' birth...
Amen.
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In the Lord Is My Joy by Margaret Rizza
If you enjoy this song, go to her Advent Christmas album!
he gives light to all his creation.
In the Lord is my joy and salvation,
he gives peace and true consolation.
A different kind of Christmas song...

Pause for Prayer: SATURDAY 12/13
Advent: a season intended to prepare the Lord's way into our hearts and
minds, into our lives. While we're spend billions of dollars at this
time of year, the heart of Christmas is calling us to the simplicity and poverty of gospel life: to simplify our lives and to identify with and serve those who have so much less than we do. Saint Oscar Romero wrote about this:
No one can celebrate a genuine Christmas
without being truly poor...
The self-sufficient, the proud,
those who, because they have everything,
look down on others,
those who have no need even of God
—for them there will be no Christmas...
Only the poor, the hungry,
those who need someone
to come on their behalf:
only they will have that someone...
That someone is God.
Emmanuel.
God-with-us.
Without poverty of spirit
there can be no abundance of God....
- Saint Oscar Romero
Romero speaks a hard word here, difficult for us to hear and
understand in our first world comfort. But his words are true to the
season's spirit. Christmas is for those "who need someone to come on
their behalf." If we think we need no one or if we don't believe the
"someone" we need most is, indeed, God - then we will have no idea of
what Christmas is all about... Advent is a time for waiting: waiting for the One
who comes on our behalf...
Lord,
help me know how much I need you...
I need you to be there for me, Lord,
I need you to come on my behalf,
to be my strength, my guide, my advocate,
my help, my healing, my hope,
my Savior...
You hear the cry of the poor, Lord:
hear the cry of my poor heart
and help me hear the cry of those in need...
12/12/25
NIGHT PRAYER: Friday 12/12

Every
year at this time I look for ways to reach out to those who need
this season's comfort and joy but who find the holidays to be a
difficult time... Perhaps you're one of those folks or perhaps you know
some others who are... Let's pray together...
The rushing 'round
to buy and wrap
disheartens lonely souls...
forget
the ones who'll be alone...
This merry month can be,
for some,
the saddest time of year...
whose tears may fall
Then drop a blessing
Amen.
Your Hands by JJ Heller
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I have trouble I wish wasn't there
And I have asked a thousand ways
That you would take my pain away
You would take my pain away
How to walk this weary land
Make straight the paths that crooked lie
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands
You healed the broken, lost, and hurt
I know you hate to see me cry
One day you will set all things right
Yeah, one day you will set all things right
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands
Are holding me, they hold me still
Your hands that shape the world
Are holding me, they hold me still
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave you -
Heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands
Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 12/12
Today, December 12, is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patron Saint of the Americas.
Take a few moments to consider how often Canada, the United States, Mexico, Argentina, Venezuela, Honduras, Haiti and the Caribbean Sea are in the news these days. And consider the poverty and political unrest that pervades so much of this half of the world... There are so many people and so many reasons for us to call on Our Lady of Guadalupe who watches over the Americas through the eyes and heart and the mercy and grace of her son, Jesus...
In 1531 Our Lady of Guadalupe appeared in Mexico to Cuauhtlatohuac, baptized Juan Diego, a peasant, on whose cloak there appeared an image on the Blessed Virgin as he had seen her in the vision.
you who heed our cry
you who appeared
you who praise God through your dance,
you who brought not only a message,
help us obtain from your Son,
help our lives become a dance
Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us!
Xicochi, xicochi
Xicochi conetzintle
Xicochi conetzintle
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
Ca omizhuihuixoco in angelosme
In angelosme in angelosme
Sleep, precious baby
Sleep, precious baby
Indeed, the angels have come here
Indeed, the angels have come here
Indeed, the angels have come here







