11/7/08

On admission to seminaries: Part II


Photo from RC Vocations: US seminarians in Rome greet the news of the election of Benedict XVI

I recently posted on a new document from the Vatican: Guidelines for the Use of Psychology in the Admission and Formation of Candidates for the Priesthood. The post included remarks made at a press conference by Cardinal Zenon Grocholewski of the Vatican Congregation for Catholic Education, the dicastery which oversees seminary education. The whole document can be read here.

Having read the document, I offer below what I find to be its salient elements. Overall, and from a pastor's perspective, I found it to be a helpful document. It reflects much of what was operative, even if in elementary ways, in my own seminary formation. For four years I was on the formation staff of Moreau Seminary at the University of Notre Dame. As a former "formator" (the dicastery's term for those involved in the formation of candidates for ordination) I recognize in the document many of the concerns about candidates that I had as one responsible for recommending or not recommending candidates to their bishops or religious superiors for ordination.

I encourage those interested to read the entire document. For those who might not take the time to do that, the following excerpts might be helpful. The emphasis is added and is my own.

At the conclusion of the excerpts, you'll see I've added one more comment.
…The priestly ministry, understood and lived as a conformation to Christ, Bridegroom and Good Shepherd, requires certain abilities as well as moral and theological virtues, which are supported by a human and psychic – and particularly affective – equilibrium, so as to allow the subject to be adequately predisposed for giving of himself in the celibate life, in a way that is truly free in his relations with the faithful…

The document lists a series of human virtues and relational abilities that are required of the priest, so that his personality * may be “a bridge and not an obstacle for others in their meeting with Jesus Christ the Redeemer of humanity.” These virtues and qualities range from the personality's general equilibrium to the ability to bear the weight of pastoral responsibilities, from a deep knowledge of the human spirit to a sense of justice and loyalty.

* The specific understanding of “personality” in this document refers to affective maturity and absence of mental disorder.

Some of these qualities merit particular attention: the positive and stable sense of one's masculine identity, and the capacity to form relations in a mature way with individuals and groups of people; a solid sense of belonging, which is the basis of future communion with the presbyterium (other priests) and of a responsible collaboration in the ministry of the bishop; the freedom to be enthused by great ideals and a coherence in realizing them in everyday action; the courage to take decisions and to stay faithful to them; a knowledge of oneself, of one's talents and limitations, so as to integrate them within a self-esteem before God; the capacity to correct oneself; the appreciation for beauty in the sense of “splendour of the truth” as well as the art of recognizing it; the trust that is born from an esteem of the other person and that leads to acceptance; the capacity of the candidate to integrate his sexuality in accordance with the Christian vision, including in consideration of the obligation of celibacy…

A priestly vocation involves an extraordinary and demanding synergy of human and spiritual dynamics. The candidate, knowing this, can only draw advantage from an attentive and responsible vocational discernment, aimed at differentiating formation paths according to each individual's needs, as well as gradually overcoming his deficiencies on the spiritual and human levels. The Church has the duty of furnishing candidates with an effective integration of the human dimension, in light of the spiritual dimension into which it flows and in which it finds its completion… In fact, those who today ask admittance to the seminary reflect, in a more or less accentuated way, the unease of an emerging mentality characterized by consumerism, instability in family and social relationships, moral relativism, erroneous visions of sexuality, the precariousness of choices, and a systematic negation of values especially by the media.

Among the candidates can be found some who come from particular experiences – human, family, professional, intellectual or affective – which, in various ways, have left psychological wounds that are not yet healed and that cause disturbances. These wounds, unknown to the candidate in their real effects, are often erroneously attributed by him to causes outside himself, thus depriving him of the possibility of facing them adequately…

The timely discernment of possible problems that block the vocational journey can only be of great benefit for the person, for the vocational institutions and for the Church. Such problems include excessive affective dependency; disproportionate aggression; insufficient capacity for being faithful to obligations taken on; insufficient capacity for establishing serene relations of openness, trust and fraternal collaboration, as well as collaboration with authority; a sexuality identity that is confused or not yet well defined…

A certain Christian and vocational maturity can be reached, including with the help of psychology, illumined and completed by the contribution of the anthropology of the Christian vocation and, therefore, of grace. Nevertheless, one cannot overlook the fact that such maturity will never be completely free of difficulties and tensions, which require interior discipline, a spirit of sacrifice, acceptance of struggle and of the Cross, and the entrusting of oneself to the irreplaceable assistance of grace…

It is possible that the candidate – notwithstanding his own commitment and the support of the psychologist, or psychotherapy – could continue to show himself unable to face realistically his areas of grave immaturity – even given the gradual nature of all human growth. Such areas of immaturity would include strong affective dependencies; notable lack of freedom in relations; excessive rigidity of character; lack of loyalty; uncertain sexual identity; deep-seated homosexual tendencies; etc. If this should be the case, the path of formation will have to be interrupted.
The same is also true if it becomes evident that the candidate has difficulty living chastity in celibacy: that is, if celibacy, for him, is lived as a burden so heavy that it compromises his affective and relational equilibrium…
As the product of 8 years of seminary formation and as one who served for four years on a seminary formation staff, I have no recollection from my student or staff days of the concept of "spiritual paternity" which Cardinal Grocholewski refers to in the press conference noted in my first post on this matter. The cardinal implies that homosexuals cannot be admitted to seminaries because their sexual preference precludes any "spiritual paternity" they might exercise in ministry. The point he seems to be making is that since a homosexual man does not desire marriage to a woman and the possibility of siring offspring, he cannot possibly exercise a "spiritual paternity" of those in his pastoral care. The cardinal implies that although a homosexual man might be free of any sin connected with his sexual preference and although he might be prepared to embrace a chaste, celibate life - that is not enough. He must have the potential for desiring physical paternity.

It should be noted that the cardinal's reference to his question of paternity was raised in the press conference and that, in the document, such reference is only in the 12th footnote, quoting a 2006 address by Benedict XVI:
Footnote no. 12:
In the developing formation process, affective maturity takes on a particular importance; this is an area of development that requires, today more than ever, particular attention. “In reality, we grow in affective maturity when our hearts adhere to God. Christ needs priests who are mature, virile, capable of cultivating an authentic spiritual paternity. For this to happen, priests need to be honest with themselves, open with their spiritual director and trusting in divine mercy” (Benedict XVI, Speech to priests and religious in the Cathedral of Warsaw [25 May 2006], in L'Osservatore Romano [26-27 May 2006], p. 7).
Cardinal Grocholewski spoke of homosexuality in a priest as "a type of wound in the exercise of the priesthood, in forming relations with others. And precisely for this reason we say that something isn’t right in the psyche of such a man."

A number of questions might be addressed to these points of view. I suspect, indeed, I hope they will be.

For the time being I note again that this requirement based on the category of "spiritual paternity" is a new one to me and that, by and large, the document generally addresses some important concerns. Regardless of what might have be their sexual orientation, I'm sure that we recognize in the range of "problems" the document details some descriptive notes of priests we know (and have known) - and love.

-ConcordPastor

20 comments:

  1. I have been following your post' on this issue and have enjoyed the thoughtful dialog it can bring.I wonder, does a man have to have "the potential for desiring physical paternity." to desire "spiritual paternity"? I believe the desire of the church to ordain emotionally health men is a good thing, but I do wonder at the judgment of the desires of homosexual men. How do we ever know the heart and the mind of another?

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  2. "Thus, every formator must be prepared, including by means of specific courses, to understand profoundly the human person as well as the demands of his formation to the ordained ministry. To that end, much advantage can be derived from meeting experts in the psychological sciences, to compare notes and obtain clarification on some specific issues."

    What is like to be a formator? I mean in the sense of how the meetings are held with a candidate and what goes on. Does the candidate meet with a group (like a congressional hearing)? How many formators are there? What is the make up of the group? all clergy? Surely experts from the laity,including women experts, would make sense.
    Anne

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  3. Just in case you are wondering...the first Anne is not the frequent visitor called "Anne"...that's me on the second post but hi to the other anne!!

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  4. The cardinal assumes that sexual orientation and the desire or inner movement to parent children are connected. I don't think so.

    I've known many adults who, because of various circumstances--including an awareness of sexual orientation issues--find they no longer desire marriage. But they continue in a role as an exception parent.

    Because of my role as a minister, I was responsible for working with children long before I married and adopted my own child. Was this a "false" paternity until I married?

    I noted this comment about "spiritual paternity" too, and found it curious. It almost seems as if the decision has been made, now the scramble is on to concoct a theology to fit the "facts."

    Todd

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  5. That photo is one of my all time favorites. My son is in the seminary. He's 20 and he and the fellow seminarians look just like that - handsome, full of life, and in love with Chirst and his Church. They give me so much hope.

    In Christ Mary Herboth
    Broken Alabaster http://www.brokenalabaster.com
    (You are invited to come and visit us!)

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  6. Is there a difference between being chaste and being celibate? Do they both mean not having sex?

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  7. Without adding to the "spiritula paternity" discussion, which I think is vague at best, I would simply observe that, in general, women have more of most all of these criteria than men.

    I do feel good that my church is formally trying to add rigour to the "formation" process. Maybe that is the best we can ever hope to see as a formal response to the previous generation of scandal.

    I would also observe that it is a far cry from the criteria, or lack there of, that accompanied the custom of a "gift" of a third or fourth born son to the church that dominated the priethood and monastic life for hundreds of years. Wow, that was a wild tangent, but I just finished a related book and figured I would throw it out there.

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  8. There is a difference between being chaste and being celibate.
    If I am correct:
    Someone who is chaste vows to refrain from any kind of "immoral" sexual relations.

    Someone who is celibate vows to abstain from sexual relations and to remain unmarried.

    Examples:
    A married couple engaging in sexual relations only within their marriage and with their spouse would be considered chaste.

    Anyone committed to religious life or a man committed to priestly ordination would be celibate because they commit to remain unmarried and not to engage in sexual relations with anyone.

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  9. Chaste is: innocent of unlawful sexual intercourse 2: celibate 3: pure in thought and act : modest 4 a: severely simple in design or execution : austere chaste classicism b: clean,spotless

    Celibacy is: Abstinence from sexual intercourse, especially by reason of religious vows.
    2. The condition of being unmarried.

    All definitions from "google". :-)

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  10. How painful it can be to read this, if one knows of faithful and good gay men who are priests or called to priesthood, in the Roman Catholic church or elsewhere.

    There is so much which can be said about the idea of "spiritual paternity." I will add just one twist.

    I have known women who had in their childhoods experienced sexual abuse at the hands of their fathers. For them, one part of their healing has been finding safe fatherly figures in priests. For some of these women, aware of the realities of life and human frailty, just knowing that the priest was supposed to remain celibate was not a guarantor of the kind of safety they sought to experience with this man who, because of their relative positions, had some kind of power or authority over them.

    If they could know that not only was this man not *supposed* to make a move on them but was also not *inclined* to do so, that knowledge could provide a greater sense of freedom to experience the relationship as deeply healing.

    What other opportunities for pastoral care are prevented from finding fruition by narrowly restricting who is acceptable as a priest or by enforcing silence, the breaking of which might be liberation for both pastor and member of his flock?

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  11. I found this online at www.thefreelibrary.com/celibacy+vs.+chastity:

    Celibacy was defined as the "state of not being married" (the Latin caelibatus means "unmarried"). Although morally reprehensible, sexual sins did not contravene the celibacy canons, but attempted marriage did. The Catechism of the Church, while it does not define celibacy, seems to understand celibacy in this traditional sense. Meanwhile, chastity is a virtue everyone is called to embrace. According to the Encyclopedia of Catholicism, chastity is "the virtue that pursues the integration of the true meaning of human sexuality and intimacy, whether one is married or not."

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  12. I'm glad to see so many folks doing their homework investigating celibacy and chastity. Let me offer a comment.

    In the Christian dispensation, every person is called to live a chaste life which does not necessarily mean refraining for sex. Married couples enjoy a full sexual relationship but are nonetheless called to live chastely, according to their vocation in life. Respect for one's spouse; fidelity to the marriage bond; refraining from sexual behavior that is cheap or demeaning - such are the cautions that married persons must observe in living a chaste sexual life.

    As an unmarried (celibate) person, a priest or religious is called to a chastity that precludes even the chaste sexual life of married persons.

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  13. Sorry! I posted a draft of my comment (above) which failed to include the following:

    Unmarried single persons are also called to live a chaste life. As unmarried persons they live a kind of celibacy but not necessarily permanently so nor by promise.

    For such persons,chaste expressions of affection between those developing a relationship and looking towards marriage would be appropriate although the same expressions would not be within chaste bounds for the celibate priest or religious.

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  14. I think some poster forget that the priesthood is not a job but a character, a reshaping of the personality to conform to that of Jesus the Christ. Piskie's pain likely results from a misunderstanding of that nature of the priesthood and its intimate relationship to gender. John Paul's Theology of the Body discusses gender at length, and could be a good starting point to delve into the Catholic understand of "maleness" "fatherhood" and the priestly office.

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  15. Piskie's comment may not capture all of what the Catholic Church teaches on these matters, but neither does the most recent "anonymous" comment resolve the whole issue in 7 lines.

    For the record, in eight years of seminary formation I was never told that ordination was going to "reshape my personality" to conform to the personality of Jesus.

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  16. Concord Pastor,
    Ordination changes a man indelibly.

    By virtue of the sacramental consecration which the priest receives, he is ontologically changed. He is configured to the Person of Jesus Christ, Head and Shepherd, in a new way in his very being. "The relation of the priest to Jesus Christ, and in him to his Church, is found in the very being of the priest by virtue of his sacramental consecration/anointing and in his activity, that is, in his mission and ministry." Just as at Baptism and Confirmation the Christian is sacramentally marked on the soul, so is the man who is ordained a priest marked sacramentally and configured to Christ the Priest.

    An orthodox understanding of the Person of Jesus Christ -- and I've looked at several sources -- helps to shed light on who the priest is in his very being. An analogy: Just as the human nature of Christ is personalized by its union with the divine Person of the Word, so is the priest, by virtue of sacramental consecration, configured in his being to Jesus Christ, Head and Shepherd. Thus, the ordained priest is In Persona Christi. As the late John Paul wrote "…the specific ontological bond which unites the priesthood to Christ the high priest and good shepherd." And again, in the same Exhortation, the Pope said, "the priest shares in Christ’s consecration and mission in a specific and authoritative way, through the sacrament of holy orders, by virtue of which he is configured in his being to Jesus Christ, head and shepherd…"
    Then again, for those in union with Christ, the words of Paul apply: "I live now, not I, but Christ liveth in me."

    This is more than 7 lines, Concord Pastor, but again, the Theology of the Body is most instructive.

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  17. I am certainly familiar with the language and theology quoted by "anonymous" above. None of it is new to me. But to be "configured in his being to Jesus Christ" -to speak of an ontological change- is very different than saying that one's personality is reshaped.

    My parish is teaching the Theology of the Body, recommended by the archdiocese, as our high school confirmation program.

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  18. Concord Pastor,

    Poster Piskie appeared to argue that a fragile/abused woman would only be able to relate to a priest safely if she were sure the priest were gay. She goes on to say the church has a narrow view of what is acceptable, and that it would be liberating for priests who are gay to come out to their parishioners. One can understand her feelings without accepting her argument or conclusions. Being unable to relate to a woman in a normal way as a sexual being is not a prerequisite for being helpful as a priest or healthy as a person.

    The point remains that the Church requires priests to be like Christ in very basic ways, one of which is gender and, additionally, in orientation.

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  19. I think you read Piskie more narrowly than she wrote but I'll leave it to her to respond.

    Priests in the Catholic Church have always been required to be like Christ in gender. For about half its history, the Church has also required priests to be celibate. To my knowledge the addition of the requirement of a heterosexual orientation is of recent vintage.

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  20. I dare say a reading of the Bible, both Old and New Testaments, would make clear that the Church has never taught or accepted in doctrine the idea that homosexuals should be priests. If it was not spelled out in the past, that may be because it was assumed knowledge. (Remembering that until the '70s, homosexuality was a mental illness according to the medical community, and homosexual behavior was against the law.)

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