5/5/11

Prayers for Mothers Day


Photo by Kincaid

This post and the one that follows are for Mothers Day.  I offer them ahead of time for those who might want to use or share them in preparation for this weekend's special day for mothers.  I'll post them both again on Sunday.


Mothers will be celebrated by their families this coming weekend in special ways. There will be flowers and sweets, phone calls from children too far away for a visit, cards and gifts, breakfast in bed or brunch or dinner at a nice restaurant.  Keep a place in your prayer this day for all the mothers who will rejoice with their families this weekend...


Some women will spend this Mother's Day in anticipation of the birth of a child they're carrying - perhaps their first child - a child whose ultrasound image has already won the hearts of mom and dad. Other expectant mothers are making their way through the long process of adoption - or perhaps the arrival of their adopted love is just around the corner! Keep a place in your prayer this Mother's Day for those who are expecting the arrival of a child - and pray that both mother and child will be healthy...


I lost my mother in August of 1994. I love her and miss her but I can't say that Mother's Day is an especially difficult day for me. More difficult than the second Sunday in May are all the times through the year when wonderful things are happening in my parish and I think, "I wish mom could be here for this!" Open a place in your heart to pray for those who miss the wonderful mothers God gave them...


My heart goes out to women who want very much to be mothers but who, for any number of reasons, are unable to bear a child... I know this day can be difficult for them, even as they celebrate their own mothers with love and devotion. Let's keep a place in our prayer for women who long for a child with their heart and soul...


Part of my ministry is to serve the bereaved... Just recently I celebrated the funeral of a wonderful woman, a fine mother, a woman of faith as great as it was simple, as beautiful as it was profound. Her family grieved and prayed for her and I know this Mother's Day will be especially difficult for them. Let's keep a place in our prayer this weekend for those whose grief over losing their mother is fresh in their minds and hearts...


We live in world where children are born to families able and ready to care for them and we live in a world where millions of children will be hungry this Mother's Day.  We live in a world where some nations limit the number of children a couple may legally have.  And we live in a world where many champion the "right" to end the life of a child already conceived. For the mothers of all these children, and for their children, let us keep a place in our prayer this weekend...


Some children have mothers who failed to care for them. These sons and daughters understand deeply the lyrics of that old song, "Sometimes I feel like a motherless child..." For those in pain this day over mothers who left their children wanting, let us keep a place of prayer in our hearts...


Some mothers today will be forgotten by their children: no visit, no card, no call, no candy or flowers. Some mothers this day don't know where a son or daughter has gone or what has become of them. A mother's heart aches on this day for the child of her womb who has forgotten her or who has disappeared. Pray with me on this Mother's Day for women who wait for a call that will not come...


Many mothers today will remember a child who has died. A parent's grief for a child lost is unfathomable - and a mother's grief is perhaps deeper than any. We Christians believe that one day we shall see again those who have gone before us and enjoy their love. Keep a place in your heart for mothers who need the consolation of such faith and pray that they'll trust that the Lord will keep his word...


Some mothers today will not know or recognize their children when they come to visit. Time has robbed them of their memory of even those they love the most. Keep a place in your prayer today for mothers who may know their children in their heart of hearts but are unable to remember or speak their names. And pray for those sons and daughters who tell their mothers of their love, hoping that a mother's heart will hear what her mind no longer holds...


This Mother's Day, let's turn our hearts to Mary, the Mother of God, the Mother of Jesus and Mother of all of us, his sisters and brothers. With a mother's care she raised the Christ child and lived the joy and the grief that only a mother can know. Whatever our spirits on this Mother's Day weekend, the Mother of Jesus embraces us all, so let us pray...

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you.
Blessed are you among women
and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.


Small roses: photo by Nirsha

 
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For the Matriarch: on Mothers Day


Yet another beautiful prayer from Alden Solovy's page, To Bend Light. This prayer is a fine refection of the esteem in which the matriarch is held in the Jewish family.


For the Matriarch
For our matriarch,
A song of strength and hope.

Guardian of generations,
Keeper of traditions,
Hand of guidance and love,
We are blessed by your wisdom and purpose,
Your work to bind us to our heritage,
Your dedication to peace in our homes
And joy in our lives.
You remind us to open our hearts to our brothers and sisters,
Fathers and mothers,
Daughters and sons.
You remind us to honor and cherish cousins of cousins of cousins,
And to live together, in harmony,
By G-d’s holy word.

G-d of motherly wisdom and grace,
Bless our family with health
And our matriarch with vision, endurance and hope.
May her devotion inspire us to live by our highest ideals,
Guided by Torah.
Bless our lives with laughter
And our days with purpose,
So that we bring radiance and splendor to our family
And to the world.

Blessed are You, G-d of our mothers,
Who provides just and righteous women
In every generation.


© 2010 Alden Solovy and www.tobendlight.com. All rights reserved.


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5/4/11

Update on Bloggers' Meeting at Vatican



Adding to info and links at an earlier post, I invite you to take a look at two sites:

1) Part One of of two with commentary, photos and links from Phil at Bue Eyed Ennis

2) A post with a roundup of links Elizabeth Scalia has put together for us on her page, The Anchoress.

And here's a great photo of three bloggers I read every day of the week:

Liz Scalia, Rocco Palmo and Phil Ewing

 
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5/3/11

Word for the Weekend: May 8

The Road to Emmaus by Nikki Sheppar


Have you started preparing for hearing the scriptures at Mass this weekend?

Here are the scriptures and background materials to help you prepare. And if you have kids, then check here to help them get ready, too.

This week's gospel is the story of the two disciples on the road to Emmaus and their encounter with Christ in person, in scripture and at table.

In just the same way, we accompany each other, friends and strangers alike, every day, on the road from here to there. In just the same way, Christ approaches, joins and walks with us, wanting to engage us with his presence and word. In just the same way, the Lord wants to be with us at day's end...

Do we see him? welcome him? meet him? speak with him?

 
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5/2/11

Vatican bloggers meeting: UPDATE



UPDATE: Elizabeth Scalia, The Anchoress, has posted her remarks delivered at the bloggers meeting at the Vatican.  Read her post here.


Here's the first report I've seen on today's Vatican meeting with 150 bloggers from around the world.


 
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Revenge and forgiveness


Over at Googling God, Mike Hayes posts his very personal reflection on Osama bin Laden's death, raising questions that all of us need to consider.

I tried to find a quote from the post with which to tease your interest, but Mike comes at this from so many good and important angles that I simply encourage you to read the entire piece.

 
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May God have mercy on us all...



Osama bin Laden, at whose hands thousands have tragically died,
has died at our hands.

The one who took thousands of lives by violence
has now lost his by violence.

The mastermind of 9/11 and the face of global terrorism
has been silenced and snuffed out.

A critical chapter in world history has closed.
Many more chapters remain to be read, understood and written.

May God have mercy on us all
and lead us to that peace the world cannot give.


 
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Monday Morning Offering - 142


Coffee in the Morning by George Mendoza


Good morning, good God!

Were you waiting 'til Easter
to paint this corner of creation
from your springtime palate of April-May hues,
backdropped by trees budding green, brushing 
up to leafy beauty lining arbored streets 
and hiding deep in hidden woods?

Every day's revealing 
just a little more
of what you have in store
as the season wakes, 
stirs, stretches, flexes
and wraps us in your warmth...

O God, I have longed this year
for this week, these days,
these blossoms,
your life's
sap
rising sweetly,
coursing through me
and all around me...

I offer you my thanks
for everything springing to life
and for the promise
of warm, bright days
long enough to stay the moon
until the moon's light, too,
is a welcome end, a nightlight 
for sleeping a summer's eve...

Draw me into this season of your grace,
and nurture your life rising in my heart and limbs,
my mind and soul...

Refresh and renew me, Lord, as you do your world,
and in your kindness let who I am and what I do
be a source of new life
for those whose paths cross mine
this day, this night, this week...

Amen.


(Click here for an archive of Monday Morning Offerings) 

 
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5/1/11

Yom HaShoah: Holocaust Remembrance 2011



A few days ago I urged to seek out your community's Holocaust Remembrance Observance - and to attend and participate.  My community's service was this evening and I was asked to offer a prayer at the end of the program.

The program consisted of: a welcome; music by the cantor from Concord's synagogue (herself a daughter of survivors); a presentation by a woman who was a child survivor; my prayer; and another beautiful song from the cantor.

I offered two prayers: on of my own composition and one by Alden Solovy whose prayers I've posted and linked to here recently.

By way of introduction to my part in the program, I mentioned my own prayer with the psalms in Lent and how I'd been struck by the regular refrain of lament in the psalms as well as a thirst for freedom.  From that experience, I composed a prayer in a litanic form.  I spoke, too, of how I had found Alden Solovy's blog and his prayers and how appropriate was his post today for this evening's service.

Here are the two prayers:
From Bondage to Freedom
• From the bondage of lies,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of truth and its pursuit…

• From the bondage of hatred,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to love all peoples as you love them…

• From the bondage of bullying and cruelty,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of kindness, gentleness,
and compassion…

• From the bondage of religious persecution,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of awe and acceptance
in the face of others’ faith…

• From the bondage of power,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of placing others’ needs
ahead of our own…

• From the bondage of tyranny,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of liberty shaped by fair rule…

• From the bondage of war,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of peace justly won
and mutually secured…

• From the bondage of slavery,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of serving you in serving one another…

• From the bondage of racism,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of being one family,
made in your image…

• From the bondage of persecution,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to lift up those who are oppressed…

• From the bondage of torture and genocide,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of respecting and reverencing
the dignity of every human being…

• From the forgetting that leads us to repeat the sins of the past,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to remember, lest we ever forget…
-Austin Fleming
And here's Alden's prayer:
After the Horror

Hold fast to the breath of life.
Hold fast to the song of life.
Hold fast to the soul of life.

This is my sacred duty, G-d of old,
As survivor, as witness, as a voice of history and truth.

Why else did I live when so many died?
Why else do I stand when so many were put to rest?
Why else do I hope and yearn when so many were silenced?

Hold fast to awe and wonder.
Hold fast to radiance and light.
Hold fast to mystery and majesty.

This is my sacred duty, G-d of old,
As mourner, as testimony to horror and destruction.

What else remains? What else endures?
What more can You ask of me,
But to choose life in the shadow of death?
© 2011 Alden Solovy and www.tobendlight.com. All rights reserved. 
 
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The view from my window

Photo: AF
Finally, some color is blooming around the house I live in!



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