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Daily Prayer, Spirituality and Worship in the Roman Catholic Tradition
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On Sundays, Night Prayer will focus on an element from the day's celebration of Mass. Today's scriptures (especially the first reading and the gospel) urge us toward a change of heart and mind as we stand before our God...
Lord, some things in my life need changing
and I wish these changes would happen overnight
but change comes slowly to me -
perhaps because I come so slowly to change...
Help me change, Lord,
help me change…
Open me
to the changes I want to make
the changes I need to make,
the changes you're calling me to make...
Change me from the inside out!
Reboot my heart
‘til it beats in rhythm with yours, Lord,
‘til my heart’s in sync
with your wisdom, word and will...
Change and stretch me, Lord,
to become, to be
the person you created me to be...
Stretch me, Lord,
‘til I’m satisfied with being nothing less
than the person you created me to be...
Open my eyes, Lord,
to see your Spirit at work in my life
helping me to change,
day by day by day...
Open my ears to hear your voice
guiding me through the changes I need to make...
Open my mouth in prayer to ask for your help
in making the changes I most need to make...
Open my mind to know and to learn
how my thoughts and ideas might need to change…
Open my hands to work for change
that will serve and help and lift up my neighbor…
Open me to changes I need to make
in places I’m now complacent, smug and content…
Open my heart to your Spirit, Lord,
changing, shaping and molding me in your image…
Open me to the ways you’re leading and guiding me
through changes I don’t want to make
and changes I’m afraid to make,
and changes that I need to make:
the changes, Lord, that you by grace
are working to make in me...
Change me, Lord:
help me serve those in need,
cheer those in sorrow,
comfort those who grieve,
stand with those who stand alone
and rejoice with those whose hearts are glad…
Change me, Lord, in all the ways
you and I know I need to change,
especially when I’m slow to change
or even resist and refuse to change…
Protect me, Lord, while I’m awake
and watch over me while I sleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
and asleep, rest in your peace…
Amen.
What does it mean to be human? Every culture is challenged by this question, which lies at the heart of every form of knowledge, every art and every religion…
Before all else, the human person is someone who is conceived and born. Thus, first of all, to be human means to be a child. None of us chose to be so. None of us decided from whom, when or where to be born. This evident truth sheds light on something that is not merely biological but ethical: as children, we are all brothers and sisters. From the outset, our humanity is a gift and a trial, a promise and a responsibility…
Secondly, we are all born naked and in need. We are poor by birth, in need of bread and words, of care and affection — that is, of all that nourishes body and spirit. We know this well, and yet, as we become adults, we risk forgetting it. It is precisely those in need who suffer the greatest consequences of this forgetfulness, whenever their humanity is betrayed or cast aside, exploited or deceived…
Thirdly, to keep alive the memory of our common humanity is to recognize its grandeur — that is, its immense potential — even though it is diminished by many forms of evil and injustice. Those engaged in the fields of education, science and culture are called all the more to care for every person, so that the beauty of our freedom may shine forth. This beauty has a name: justice. Freedom is indeed beautiful when it is oriented toward goodness and truth; it is disfigured when it descends into arbitrariness, violence or the thirst for power. To be human, then, implies a responsibility before history: the human being is one who grows, learns and works with both hands and mind. By that labor, we may cultivate the earth or disfigure it, create works of art or destroy them. At this particular juncture, we must recognize that the most terrible of “human works” is war, for then science itself is placed at the service of an inhumane will to destroy and to kill.
Amen.
I want to let you know that in a few months I’ll be moving. My 5 years at Good Shepherd Parish in Wayland have been very good and I’m grateful to the people and the two pastors with whom I served there for their warm welcome of me as a senior priest in residence. I knew when I arrived in Wayland that, God willing, it would not be the last time that I’d unpack and settle into new quarters. Now, after much prayer and reflection, I believe it’s time to make what will likely be my last move -- not to worry! -- I’m in good health and I hope to live in my new digs for many years to come!
I’ll be moving just a little bit east - to downtown Boston, to the archdiocesan residence for retired priests. My new home will be Regina Cleri (Latin for Queen of the Clergy) which is located on Cardinal O’Connell Way, just behind Mass. General Hospital.
Regina Cleri is home to more than 60 priests. I know many of them (some better than others) and several of my ordination classmates are already living there. At my new place I’m choosing a medium size suite which includes a study, bedroom and a full bath. This is more expensive than a small suite (yes, I will be paying rent) but the medium size is more comfortable and comes with one of the balconies you see in the photo above. Breakfast, lunch and dinner are served daily in the dining room. (I’ve had lunch and dinner there and the food is excellent!) Also included are weekly housekeeping and laundry service, as well as phone/WIFI/cable. While my rooms will be furnished, I’m free to bring any of my own furniture with me. (My recliner will definitely be coming with me!)
My new home will be within a 10-15 minute walk to the Esplanade, Starbucks, Government Center, the State House, Quincy Market, the North End Downtown Crossing, North Station and the various transit lines. And a parking space for my car!
While I hope what I've written thus far answers most of the questions you might have, you might still be wondering, “Why? Why now?” I’m pleased to respond!
I retired from assigned ministry 5 years ago and I’m very grateful to be in good health and living an independent lifestyle. Still, I know the time will come when I’ll need to depend more on others in my daily life – more than rectory living situations can easily accommodate or provide for. While I still handle stairs quite well (at my own pace and with a bannister!) the days of living on the second floor won’t last forever and yes, Regina Cleri has an elevator! I know, too, that I’ll maintain a much healthier diet when my meals are regularly prepared by folks who will pay more attention to my nutrition than I usually do. I’m in my 80th year and I’ve known for a long time now that while I like to think of myself as still being young in spirit, the rest of me continues to age and slow down.
So I’ll be moving from one independent lifestyle setting to another – with the option of greater care when and as I may need it. I believe this is a wise move to make – and that now’s the time to make it.
Once I’m settled in, I’ll look for a parish where I might help out by presiding and preaching at a Sunday mass. While I have no particular place in mind, I’ll be looking something not too far from downtown Boston.
And yes, of course, I will continue writing my blog!
I hope this gives you a fair picture of what’s ahead for me - and I hope you’ll rejoice with me! I don’t at all feel that I had to make this decision. As I drove away from Regina Cleri after my interview there, I felt a deep certainty that this is the next right thing to do in my life – and that brings me much peace.
When will this happen? I don’t have a definite date but I hope to have moved in by Thanksgiving.
I’m not moving far away – my new home is only a little about 20 miles from where I live now. in. Please pray for me - and join me in thanking God for this great opportunity.
Scripture tells me there's a time for everything, Lord,
and a time for every purpose under heaven...
May the time I spend asleep tonight
restore, refresh and ready me
for the time I'll have tomorrow
to grow in love and serve you
in loving and serving others...
Protect me, Lord, as I lie awake
and watch over me when I'm fast asleep
that awake, I might keep watch with you
and asleep, rest in your peace...
Amen.
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Remind me then
to pull back the curtains veiling my heart
to welcome the light of your presence...
Amen.