4/30/14

Pause for Prayer: THURSDAY 5/1

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Lord,
When I can't see where you are,
remind me how you never lose sight of me...

When I strain to listen but just can't hear you,
remind me how you never miss a word I pray...

When I'm alone and feel abandoned,
remind me how you hold me in the palm of your hand...

When I just can't seem to find you
remind me how you seek me out, night and day...

When I find it hard to trust in you,
remind me how you never give up on me...

When I can't forgive myself
remind me how your mercy is forever...

When I don't know where to turn,
remind me how you guide and watch my every step...

And when I can't...  (well, whatever!)
remind me that you can, you do and always will
love and care for me...

Amen.






     
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Word for the Weekend: MAY 4

The Road to Emmaus by Nikki Sheppar


Have you started preparing for hearing the scriptures at Mass this weekend?

Here are the scriptures and some brief commentary to help you prepare. And if you'll have kids with you at Mass, then check here to help them get ready, too.

This week's gospel is the story of the two disciples on the road to Emmaus and their encounter with Christ in person, in scripture and at table.

In the same way, we accompany each other, friends and strangers alike, every day, on the road from here to there.

In the same way, Christ approaches, joins and walks with us, wanting to engage us with his presence and word.

In the same way, the Lord wants to be with us at day's end...

And in the same way, we often don't recognize the Lord right by our side...

Do we see him? welcome him? meet him? speak with him?



 

     
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4/29/14

Texting with God...





 

   
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St. Catherine's Day

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Today is the feast of St. Catherine of Sienna.  Take a few moments to pray with her beautiful imagery (below) in speaking of the Trinity and the Eucharist. (And for more words of wisdom from Catherine, see this page.)
 
And I shall clothe myself in your eternal will,
and by this light I shall come to know
that you, eternal Trinity,
are table
and food
and waiter for us.
You, eternal Father,
are the table
that offers us food,
the Lamb, your only-begotten Son.
He is the most exquisite of foods for us,
both in his teaching,
which nourishes us in your will,
and in the sacrament
that we receive in Holy Communion,
which feeds and strengthens us
while we are pilgrim travelers in this life.
And the Holy Spirit
is indeed a waiter for us,
for the Spirit serves us this teaching
by enlightening our mind's eye with it
and inspiring us to follow it.
And the Spirit serves us charity for our neighbors
and hunger to have as our food.



 

     
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4/28/14

Pause for Prayer: TUESDAY 4/29



Got some things I need to let go of, Lord,
and they're likely the things
you'd like to see me cut loose...

I need to let go of resentments and spite,
of bitterness, grudges
and chips on my shoulder...

I need to let go of old habits:
some harmful, some risky,
some just plain foolish...

I need to let go of my anger,
the rage I stew in
to no one's good or advantage...

I need to let go my self-pity,
my pride and the envy
that keep me from loving my neighbor...

I need to let go of some dreams,
not my best hopes and plans and goals,
but my fantasy, make-believe pipe dreams...

I might need to let go a relationship,
one I'm not meant to be in,
not healthy for me or the other...

I might need to let go of the past,
its problems and pain
and memories that rob me of peace...

I need to let go my attraction, addiction,
to work or play, some substance or toy,
to porn or some pleasure, to whatever it is
that eats up my time and devours my soul
while starving my mind and my heart...

Got some things I need to let go of, Lord,
and they're likely the things
you'd like to see me cut loose...

Lord,
when I cling to such things,
pry open my hands...

When I harbor what's hurtful,
free my soul of ill will...

When I hug what's harmful,
fill my arms with your healing...

There's so many things I need to let go
to make room for the gifts and the grace you offer,
to fill me with only the good things that come
from your generous heart and hand...

Lord,
when I hold on tight to what holds me back:
free me, release me, set me free
of whatever it is I need to let go of...

Give me the grace, the courage,
the wisdom, the help and the strength
I so much need
to let go of whatever I need to let go of
today...





 

     
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Holocaust Remembrance Day



It is the annual Holocaust Remembrance Day.  Here are two prayers for this memorial, the first is my own and the second from my friend, Alden Solovy.
From Bondage to Freedom
• From the bondage of lies,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of truth and its pursuit…

• From the bondage of hatred,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to love all peoples as you love them…

• From the bondage of bullying and cruelty,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of kindness, gentleness,
and compassion…

• From the bondage of religious persecution,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of awe and acceptance
in the face of others’ faith…

• From the bondage of power,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of placing others’ needs
ahead of our own…

• From the bondage of tyranny,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of liberty shaped by fair rule…

• From the bondage of war,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of peace justly won
and mutually secured…

• From the bondage of slavery,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of serving you in serving one another…

• From the bondage of racism,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of being one family,
made in your image…

• From the bondage of persecution,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to lift up those who are oppressed…

• From the bondage of torture and genocide,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom of respecting and reverencing
the dignity of every human being…

• From the forgetting that leads us to repeat the sins of the past,
deliver us, O God,
and give us the freedom to remember, lest we ever forget…
-Austin Fleming
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Shoah Memorial Prayer

Creator of all,
Source and shelter,
Grant a perfect rest under your tabernacle of peace
To those who perished in the Holocaust,
Our fathers and mothers,
Our sisters and brothers,
Our rabbis and teachers,
Our neighbors and children,
The named and the unnamed,
Whose lives were cut off by
Brutal, vicious, cunning and calculated violence.
May they find peace in the world to come.
Remember the survivors who have since passed away,
And the virtues of our people 

Who’ve died at the hand of malice
In every generation.
We remember the works of their hands
And the messages of their hearts.
Bless the defenders of Israel with safety and strength,
And the righteous of all nations who provide
Protection, shelter and comfort to the Jewish people.
Let their deeds be a source of favor in heaven
And healing on earth.
Put an end to anger, hatred and fear
And lead us to a time 

When no one will suffer at the hand of another,
Speedily, in our days.
May the memories of all who faced these horrors
Be sanctified with joy and love.
May their souls be bound up in the bond of life,
A living blessing in our midst.

© 2012 Alden Solovy and tobendlight.com

This is the centerpiece of a six-prayer Yom HaShoah liturgy. 
This prayer appears in Alden’s new book:
Jewish Prayers of Hope and Healing.




   
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4/27/14

Monday Morning Offering: April 28


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Good morning, good God!

So often it’s the “little things” that really get to me
so this morning, Lord, I offer you
the "small stuff" that throws me off:
I pray for your healing and your help...

I offer you the little disappointments
that can so easily sidetrack my day
and distract me from bigger concerns
and more important responsibilities...

Heal my perspective, Lord,
and don't let me sweat the small stuff:
help me see my problems for what they are -
no more and no less…

When things don't go my way
and I act like a child, help me grow up
and give me the patience I need
to take all things just one day at a time…

I offer you the bumps in my road,
the ones that tumble and slow me down;
don’t let them stall and stop me
or turn me around and set me back…

I offer you all the setbacks
that keep me from changing my life in a day:
help me see in unexpected twists and turns,
the opportunity for growth and grace…

Give me balance and courage
to go forward every day,
moving over, around and through the rough spots -
even when I want to call it quits...

I offer you the little losses each day brings:
help me know the difference
between the molehills and mountains
of difficulty and defeat…

Heal the pride that keeps me
from owning my own mistakes
and the self-judgment that blinds me
‘til my mistakes are all I see…

Open my eyes and let me see,
help me learn,
it's not all about me, Lord!

Open my heart to the burdens
of others whose needs are many
and far exceed my own…

Open my hands and arms
to those who struggle to walk on paths
at least as rough as mine…

I offer you my day, Lord,
with all its little problems
and all the small stuff
that gets to me and throws me off… 

Heal my perspective, Lord,
and don't let me sweat the small stuff: 
help me see my problems for what they are -
no more and no less…

Lord, give me wisdom
   to know what truly matters;
give me counsel
   to weigh my problems wisely
and give me courage
   to do what I must do...

Receive my morning offering, Lord,
today and through the week ahead…

Amen.






   
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Homily for Sunday, April 27



Homily for the Second Sunday of Easter
(Scriptures for today's Mass)

Audio for homily



Have you ever heard of the “Shroud of Turin?”

It’s a length of linen cloth bearing the image of a man
who appears to have suffered physical trauma
in a manner consistent with crucifixion.
It is believed by some to be the burial shroud of Jesus
but there’s no scientific proof for this claim.
Nor is there consensus on exactly how the image was created.

I’ve often been asked if I think how wonderful it would be
if science could authenticate that this is, indeed,
the very shroud used to wrap Jesus’ body for burial.
Wouldn’t that be just the proof we need
to convince everyone to believe in Jesus?

I’m not so sure.

Whether the shroud of Turin is authentic or not
has no bearing on my faith, one way or the other.
Should the shroud be proved to be a medieval artifact
(as some claim),
my faith in Jesus would not in the least be shaken.
And should the shroud be proved to be authentic,
my faith in Jesus would not in the least be increased.

My faith in Jesus, risen, has nothing to do with burial cloths.

It has to do with whether or not I have met the risen Christ
in my heart, in my prayer, in the scriptures, in the sacraments,
in the Church: in you.
And I have.
I have met the risen Christ in all these places.

I have not met the risen Christ as did the apostles
on that evening of that first Easter day.
I have not, like Thomas, like encountered Jesus
showing me his hands and his side.
I have not heard the risen Jesus speak to me
such that I heard him with my own ears.
Contrary to what many people think,
I do not have a “direct line to God!”

Faith in the risen Jesus was first preached to me
by Ruth and Austin Fleming, my mother and father.
They began by teaching me the story of the nativity scene
atop our TV set in our living room at Christmas
and how God’s Son Jesus was born in Bethlehem
on a beautiful silent night, long, long ago.

My faith in the risen Jesus grew as I’d see, every Sunday
at St. Mary’s Church in Danvers,
the large crucifix near the altar
and my parents would tell me the story of Jesus dying
and how he died because he loved us so much.

And my faith in the risen Jesus became more real for me
as I learned how Jesus, born in Bethlehem,
had supper with his friends on the night before he died
and that he rose from the dead to new life
and comes to me in Communion, in the sacrament of the altar.

And then I became a teenager and I struggled with my faith.
But that didn’t keep me from entering  the seminary
where I really struggled with faith for years.
And I had doubts:
I had lots and lots of doubts about God and Jesus
and I struggled with reconciling my doubts and beliefs.

And yes, there were times, yes, when, like Thomas,
I doubted that Jesus had risen from the dead.

But Jesus came to me in my heart and in my prayer.
Jesus came to me in the wisdom and truth of his word in the scriptures.
Jesus came to me over and over again in the sacraments,
especially in Communion at the table of his Last Supper.
And Jesus came to me in the ministry, and in the mission,
and in the people of the Church.
For years and years, Jesus has come to me through people just like you
and he still comes to meet me through you, the people of my parish.
And with you and through you, I believe that Jesus is risen.

And you, and the sacraments, especially the Eucharist,
and the wisdom of our tradition, and the truth of God’s Word
and the experience of finding Jesus in my heart and my prayer,
all of this is so much more real to me than any burial cloth
that may or may not have been wrapped around the body of Christ.

Neither the sacraments, nor the wisdom of the scriptures and the Church,
nor my own prayer can prove the Resurrection to me,
but in each of these, in different ways, I meet the risen Jesus
who comes to me again and again with the same message:   
 “Peace be with you…”

It’s good to know that Thomas
(someone so close to Jesus historically)
also had doubts.
But what a shame that we’ve come to know Thomas as the doubter
when, indeed, he ends up being the believer.
Anyone who seeks to believe should not be surprised by doubt –
it comes with the territory.

But let’s pray that none of us gets lost or stuck in our doubts
but that we open our minds and hearts to the all the ways
the Risen Jesus comes to meet us to strengthen our faith.
And what better place to pray for this than here,
gathered with other doubters and other believers,
listening for the wisdom and truth of the scriptures,
in the shadow of Cross of the One who died for us,
who rose for us,
and who comes to meet us, Risen, in the Bread and Cup
of the sacrament of this table.

Remember the words of Peter in the second reading today:
Although you have not seen him, you love him;
even though you do not see him now, yet you believe in him:
you rejoice in faith…
And as Jesus himself said in the gospel:
Blessed are those who have not seen and have believed…

One thing I do not doubt at all is this:
Jesus comes to meet every one of us
in more ways and more often
than we know or can imagine.

Let’s pray for one another that the Spirit open our minds and hearts
and lead us from doubt to faith in the Risen Jesus
in our prayer, in the scriptures, in the sacraments, in the Church,
in the faith we share here with one another.


 

     
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4/26/14

Pause for Prayer: SUNDAY 4/27



Every day, Lord,
you give me all the help I need
to do what I need to do, 

to say what I need to say,
to go where I need to go,
to help whom I need to help,
to stop when I need to stop
and to pray as I need to pray...

Open my mind and heart
to the grace you offer me

for this day, Lord,
- especially when I need it the most...



 

     
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4/25/14

Pause for Prayer: SATURDAY 4/25

Still Doubting by John Granville Gregory

Thomas was a doubter, Lord:
he needed to see
your suffering's wounds
before he'd believe
your risen glory...

I'm a doubter, too, Lord:
I often avoid
the marks of your pain,
wanting only to find
your healing touch...

But the way of the Cross
is the path to your peace:
there's no other way to get there...

My pain marks
where you meet me, Lord:
mending and healing
my soul and doubts, leading me
to your risen peace...

I doubt, Lord:
   give me faith...

I believe, Lord:
   help my unbelief...


 

     
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4/24/14

Pause for Prayer: FRIDAY 4/25

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Open up my eyes and mind and heart, Lord,
to ponder and to wonder at how great,
how very great you are...

And when I try to put you in a box,
when I think I know you inside-out,
when I'm pretty sure I know exactly
what you think and just what you would do 
then put me in a box 
'til I recall how far  beyond my dreams,
how much deeper than my knowing
are you, my Lord and God,
whom nothing, whom no one 
can embrace, contain or hold...    

When I'm stingy with forgiveness
and a miser with my love,
when I box up all I have
just to keep it to myself:
remind me, Lord, how great you are,
how broad and deep your mercies,
how everlasting is your love,
how nothing I imagine
could encompass or take in
the fullness of your life,
flowing always fresh from your heart
into mine...

How great you are, O Lord,
how very great you are...



1) O Lord my God, When I in awesome wonder,
Consider all the worlds Thy Hands have made;
I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder,
Thy power throughout the universe displayed.

2) When through the woods, and forest glades I wander,
And hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees.
When I look down, from lofty mountain grandeur
And see the brook, and feel the gentle breeze.

Refrain
Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, How great Thou art.
Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee,
How great Thou art, How great Thou art!

3) And when I think, that God, His Son not sparing;
Sent Him to die, I scarce can take it in;
That on the Cross, my burden gladly bearing,
He bled and died to take away my sin.

4) When Christ shall come, with shout of acclamation,
And take me home, what joy shall fill my heart.
Then I shall bow, in humble adoration,
And then proclaim: "My God, how great Thou art!"

Refrain



 

   
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Pause for Prayer: THURSDAY 4/24

Holy Family Easter Vigil Fire: Photo by DupontMediaWorld
There were times in Holy Week, Lord,
when my faith burned as bright and as strong
as the new fire blessed at the Easter Vigil...


Lighting a taper from the Paschal Candle: Photo by DupontMediaWorld
And there were times when I knew
your light alone was the source
of all light in my life...
 

Sharing the Light of Christ: Photo by DupontMediaWorld   
And times when sharing your light
seemed the greatest possible joy...


Holding the Light of Christ: Photo by DupontMediaWorld
And there were times when I saw
your light aglow
in the lives of all those around me...


Singing the Exsultet at the Vigil: Photo by DupontMediaWorld








Keep the light of Easter bright in my heart, Lord...

Keep the light of your truth burning within me...

Keep the joy of your light ever before me...

Keep the light of your wisdom alive in our parish...

You are the light of the world, O Lord,
a light no darkness can extinguish...

 

     
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4/23/14

Out for dinner


Above, a delightly frothy cappuccino at The Naked Oyster (below) in Hyannis, served up by Brianne.  This followed a crab cake appetizer (made with plenty of crab) and a larged stuffed pork chop accompanied by scalloped potatoes and perfectly prepared asparagus.  A great dinner to bring my Cape break to an end...




 

     
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4/22/14

Pause for Prayer: WEDNESDAY 4/23


On the Church calendar Easter is more than a day, it's a season that last 50 days - leading us to Pentecost.  Plenty of time to celebrate Easter, plenty of time to share the joy and peace and to lift up the hearts and spirits of those who are down.

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Word for the Weekend: APRIL 27

Still Doubting by John Granville Gregory

Every year on the Sunday after Easter we hear the story of Thomas, the doubter... who is ultimately Thomas, the believer...  The painting above is a contemporary rendition of the familiar piece by Caravaggio.

I know you know the story, so let's lead off here with a few starter questions:

What doubts will you, with Thomas, bring to the Lord this Sunday?
What keeps you from believing?
What kind of proof do you look for?  wait for?
What needs affirmation and confirmation 
in your believer's mind and heart?
 

The liturgical weight and solemnity of Holy Week is behind us but every Sunday is a "little Easter" and so it's time to begin reading, studying and pondering the scriptures for the Second Sunday of Easter, also known as "Divine Mercy Sunday."

The scriptures for Sunday and background material on them can be found here and hints for helping children prepare this coming weekend's Word can be found here.

The first reading from the Acts of the Apostles gives us a snapshot view of the early Christian community and sets the bar high for those of us who would take it as our model.

In the Easter season, all three Sunday readings are taken from the Christian scriptures, the only season in the Church year when the Hebrew scriptures are not part of our spiritual nourishment. I hope that a future revision of the lectionary might rethink this practice. In the second lesson, then, we will hear from the First Letter of Peter and the caution that believers can expect to undergo some trial on account of their faith.

The gospel is the witness of John and tells story of Thomas, the doubter. Embedded in this story is the Lord's word,"Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retain are retained." This is the scriptural warrant for our understanding of the sacramental forgiveness of sin.


 

   
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Pause for Prayer: TUESDAY 4/21

Photo by Marcy Cunkelman

This past winter was a long one and spring took its own sweet time before finally pulling into town.  Along with others, I did my own share of complaining about the snow and the cold while I waited for
longer, warmer days and a greening of the landscape.  Well, spring is here, just in time for Easter, and a new season's budding, growing, unfolding all around me.  It struck me yesterday afternoon that my springtime gratitude doesn't nearly measure up to all my wintry longing and complaint.  Have I taken the season's change for granted?  Have I imagined I'm owed this better weather?  Have I thanked God that sooner or later the promise of spring is always kept?

Of course there's much more spring to come: even warmer days, gardens in bloom, green fields and flowering trees.  But I'm grateful for this first, if tardy blush of April's gift and for sureties like spring that never disappoint.

I ask for a lot, Lord, and I complain
when I think you've been slow
to hear my prayer and answer me
just the way I want...

And often I'm not satisfied
when you send hints and buds of promise
telling me: you're on the case,
you've heard my plea,
that you're answering my prayer
in your wisdom and good time...

Open up my eyes to see
the ways you slowly, surely move
within my heart and in my days:
help me notice every sign
of how you're with me,
how you're walking by my side,
how you're answering my prayers...

Keep me grateful for the gifts you've given
and mindful of the ways you keep your word
to guard and guide me, keeping and holding me
within the palm of your own hand...

Give me a grateful heart, Lord,
for all I have and all you promise me,
especially the gift of your abiding love...


 

     
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4/20/14

Monday Morning Offering: 4/21


Image: George Mendoza

Good morning, good God!

It's Easter Monday, Lord,
and time to look back a bit...

I'm thinking of the three women who came to the tomb
expecting to find you dead
but finding that you had already risen
from the dead...

I'm thinking of the apostles
hiding behind locked doors in fear...

I'm thinking of the two disciples
walking with you on the road to Emmaus
and not recognizing you until...

Seems like your closest friends
didn't get it right away, Lord:
even when you were right in their faces -
they didn't understand what had happened...

It took time for it all to sink in...

It took time for them to understand,
to believe, to act on what they believed...

It takes me time, too, Lord...

All these years,
and the message of Easter
is still sinking in, making itself known,
making itself real in my life...

I still don't understand everything about Easter:
often it seems I get the dying part
much better than I get the rising part...

I want you in my life
but sometimes I hide from you
because I'm not sure what having you in my life
will cost me...

I believe you're always with me, Lord,
so I'm sure I miss you lots of times -
even when you're right in my face...

So this Monday morning, Lord, I offer you
the ways I think, I hope I "got Easter"
a little more this year than before...

I learned that I need to wrap a towel around my heart
as you wrapped a towel around your waist:
I need a heart wrapped and ready to serve
others' needs before my own...

I learned my sins added
to the burden on your shoulders
on the cross:
my sins made your load heavier...

And I learned that you are always just ahead of me,
drawing me out of myself,
out of my darkness into your light,
calling me to be closer to you,
beckoning me to follow where you lead
so that I will find you
even though I know you're always right by my side...

Help me to understand when I don't understand, Lord;
to "get it" when I'm confused;
to take the time to let the Easter story sink in
to the depths of my mind, my heart, my life,
into my words and deeds...

And because I so often miss you
even when you're walking by my side, Lord,
open my eyes and ears and heart
to those in need around me
and help me to find you in them,
to serve you in them...

It's Easter Monday, Lord,
and I'm looking back:
draw me out of the darkness into your light,
always closer to your risen face...

Amen.




   
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